"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got busted by one of my girls

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Less then 48 hours of saying that a girl will never get into my cell phone and check my text messages, it happened to me. I was out last night with one of the girls I'm seeing for her friend's b-day at a strip hotel. When I got there her friend was tossed and so where her two other cronies. The girl i'm with tells me privately that her sister (her house mate) wanted the house to herself with her husband and was getting her a free room at the hotel. This worked well because my job was right across the street so I'd actually be saving time by staying there the night, plus I didn't have to drive so I could drink all i wanted too.

I put back some strong greyhounds and start getting tipsy. I hadn't eaten since dinner at the EDR several hours earlier in the day. After I'm a little numb the girl (who isn't drinking ) PICKS MY POCKET of my cell phone and I didn't notice. She went through my text messages and slyly put my phone on the bar when I wasn't looking. I'm alway taking my phone in and out of my pocket and I'd been drinking so I didn't really pick up on this happening.

Later after we ditched her friends, she asks me who the other girl is. I stumble a bit and say it's my co worker and she calls me out on it. Forutnately she understands that I'm a player and is okay with it. She figured I was seeing other people and still wanted to sleep with me at the end of the night and I took it to her like a champ. She gave me a key to the room (she has it for two nights) but texted me today that the rooms have changed and I need to get a new key. I guess I'll be picking it up later tonight after she gets off work.

Stupid mistake but whatever. Even if she would hae broken up with me I'd still be okay.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey i live in vegas... Can you let me in on some of the action? :D
 

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No deal! Find your own digs lol! Honestly it's way way easier to game girls here then anywhere else. More drunken tourist girls to hook up with then anywhere else. Fresh shipment of new girls monthly who are star struck about being here and are easily gamed. Crazy local chicks who have been here for a while and now don't give a f*ck. HUGE variety of types.

Best of all the whole f*cking town is 24 hours and it's not just in one area. You can go to the smallest most remote bar near the mountains at 2 am on a sunday and get drinks/ possibly find something warm to take home.

If you can't get it done here you might as well hang it up.
 

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Man... thats messed up....!! Let me become your apprentice!!
 

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I'd would've froze the chick out. You have to send a strong and clear message that your privacy HAS TO BE RESPECTED AND TO NOT RESPECT YOUR PRIVACY IS CONSIDERED DISREPSCTFUL!!! I feel that this was a sh*t test and you failed. You've only embolded her to to push the envelope further to see what she can get away with next.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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damn, its cool she is fine with you being a playa, but dont be suprised if she comes back at you with some news about another guy. girls do that ****
 

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Laundry day post!

dan - I'm not taking on any students at this time sorry. However if you'd like to meet me at a local bar to get drunk and hit on chicks i'm down.

Rex and EFDB- she can do whatever she wants. She pays for all of our meals and has offered to take me shopping on more then one occasion. If she wants to see someone else on the side that's completely okay. It's not like I'm not seeing other people obviously. It just confirmed something she already suspected.
 
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