Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got a TONNE of ideas, what now?

Bizzle13

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Been doing a lot of thinking lately, about what I want do/where I want to be. Basically I have a lot of ideas - for stories, games, inventions, business ideas, business ideologies, products, advertisements, movies, tv shows and more but never know what to do with them apart from scribble them down.

I have little to no finance, no helpful contacts and no idea which direction to take. The only one I can really follow is writing a novel which is tough in itself and the likelihood of getting published (and making good money if I do get published) is low. I accept that and would like to write as a hobby with any money gained a bonus.

What I'm looking for is just to be pointed in the right direction and I'm asking you as a community of PEOPLE, not DJ's or PUA's or Alpha's or whatever else. If someone could offer any type of advice or help I'd massively appreciate it.

I feel like more than anything I need a mentor - someone with good life experience and who might've been through similar things. Someone to help me through this as well as through other aspects of life. In fact one of my ideas (I'm trusting you not to steal it) is a type of mentoring system where anyone can sign up to look for or be a mentor. Whether its for personal gain or just to help I feel like there's so much potential in people who just have no idea how to apply it.

Again any help is massively appreciated. I promise you won't be forgotten :)

Bizzle
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bokanovsky

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Bizzle13 said:
What I'm looking for is just to be pointed in the right direction and I'm asking you as a community of PEOPLE, not DJ's or PUA's or Alpha's or whatever else. If someone could offer any type of advice or help I'd massively appreciate it.
Step 1: Get an education (a real education, not some B.S. liberal arts degree)
Step 2: Get a job
Step 3: Develop contacts
Step 4: Quit your job and start your own business (you will never get rich as an employee)
Step 5: .....
Step 6: Profit

Beyond that, it's up to you to figure out how make the best of your ideas. The good news is that there are many roads to success. The bad news is that none of them are easy. And don't expect others to teach you how to be successful. This is something that you will have to figure out on your own.
 

Bizzle13

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Just finished university and got a good degree but still don't know which direction to go in to business-wise. I see the future as investing, buying/selling, property development but don't know how to get there. As for a job the one I have offers plenty of flexibility and good money if I put the effort in. I know if I had a goal in mind (i.e: save £5000 to build a prototype x, y, z) I could do it, but I just need to assess what that goal should be and how to aid my current profession in a way to maximise profit (a lot of it is commission based and the more leads I make the more I get paid).

Thanks I appreciate the help :)
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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