"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got A Solid Situiation Set...Awkward But Solid (? about rapport)

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I get girls whom I don't even kno add me on myspace all the time. A lot of them from the same school/area, I just don't know them. So, I figured, why not make something out of it. So whatever I did with this one girl appears to be working.

She added me, I commented her with something like whatup sexiii random myspace girl. Note to all, that word, sexii, is a powerful word. I think it was in the bible, do not say cute, or hot, say sexii haha.

Allrite I dont remember exactly how the rest of the comments went, she saw me on some kids myspace and added me whateva. So i get her sn, pretty short aim convo about this kid that we both think is a fag and then we agreed to meet up sometime in school. Hot. So we decided on a time and I didn't even ask for her number, she just gave it to me, hot right.

So I wake up the next day, surprisingly feeling good. I was looking like a fukkin guido and feelin good. So I meet her where we agreed and it was kinda awkward. She was nervous and I was a little nervous, I gave her a hug and I told her she looks better in person and then I kinda did a neg hit, but i was smiling and s.it so she knew i was kidding. I said do u hang out with that fag kid. She was like no hes a loser haha, he is.

So then I kinda asked her a doumb question, who she hangs out with and she was like umm i donno. Like I said it was awkward. And then i was like i gotta go ill talk to u later.

So I kinda thought I blew it but it didn't bother me at all lolllll. And then i'm walking home and i realise i have a text and it was her. it said, i saw u. God do I sound afc, but thats what happened.

Now, where the fuk do I go from here. I have no rapport with her, its kinda awkward. I don't kno how the fuk i'm gonna get it to open up. If I asked her out it would be like silence. Maybe i'm overthinking it, and it will just come. But i'm kinda happy where I am, but lost at the same time. The text was definatley an ioi tho. god am i afc, or maybe not, thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You left...?

You forgot the part about starting to build required rapport, such as HER NAME, what's her name? Next, what school does she go to, what grade, age, likes, dislikes.

Crucial!!! Ensure you remember to spend at least 15 minutes over a coffee or a walk at least to get to somewhat know her.
 

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We knew eachothers names and we go to the same school, we met up in school between classes and I didn't have any time in the first place. I don't really kno where to go from here.
 

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I kinda just want to call her up and figure something out that way. The problem is, how the hell am i gonna build rapport with her, what the fuk am i gonna say. hi, i kno nothing about u and this is kinda awkward tell me about yourself???? uggggh
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow, she texted me again. I didn't respond to the first one lolllllll. I think she realises i'm hot property and wow i'm doing push pull without even realising it sh/t. less talking more fuking my kinda girl haha jk. ALlright, i'm gonna call her up later and say this:

hey whatsup, im glad i saw u today, its weird tho, i like barley kno u...(however it goes from there)....and ten im gonna ask her if shes going to homecomming and ask her out for that. might work out convientely, what u guys think.
 

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I don't know you, ahh, but hell, come to the dance of the year anyways....yes......

Don't tell her you pretty well don't know her..it instills that...well, I really don't, so why should I go with him....idea in her head. I'd try to go on a little date with her beforehand, to build rapport. Homecoming is a pretty big thing you know.
 

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Allright guys, I can take a breath now. I ignored her two texts and i think she got pissed. I called her back like a man, and insted of picking up she im's me hahah. So techniquely I have balls and shes like nervous so the im convo wasn't a big no no. I got an i love youuuu also. Push pull baby das wasup.

And the short aim convo was just enough of a boost at some rapport, i gotta stop worrying every second and just let it flow. I got some bad habitis.
 
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