"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BannedGod

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I met with an ex-girlfriend recently, and we had quite a lot of fun... didn't have sex though, she "didn't want to give it all to me at the same time" yet I fondled her a lot and etc. And she said she wanted to go at it again. And then when I talked to her next time, she said she changed her mind and it isn't her to sleep with a guy she isn't dating and she feels like a slut and doesn't want to do it anymore... any way I can change the situation around?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need to find out why she feels like a slut. What kind of nonsense has been forced on her. Who is she listening to, her dad, her pastor, the news. You need to gather some intelligence, then work with what you discover.
 

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DUDE LISTEN TO WHAT I AM ABOUT TO SAY................READY.......EARS IN TOTAL LISTENING MODE..........BOTH OF THEM..........OK........

SHE'S YOUR EX FOR A REASON...............

I KNOW but what if, she really is the, you don;t understand we just, blah blah blah.,etc.

IF YOU WANT GREAT SEX.............LOSE YOUR EX.

Been there done that...........THATS WHAT PUA DO.........we never go back, those that do are wusses.

FOUR LETTERS...................N-E-X-T. WAY WAY WAY........too many other chics out there. If your even considering going back you already sealed your fate BEFORE THE SEX BEGINS.

WHO CARES WHAT THE REASON WAS, who fricken cares if she wanted it............different chics have different va ginas........TIME TO UPGRADE


NUFF SAID.

M
 

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I dunno - i kinda like banging x's, especially the ones who were bitshes. Hit em with the dong a couple times and cut the line. As for a LTR, not a battle worth fighting. SEE DONG - SEE DONG RUN - RUN DONG RUN
 
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COD said:
DUDE LISTEN TO WHAT I AM ABOUT TO SAY................READY.......EARS IN TOTAL LISTENING MODE..........BOTH OF THEM..........OK........

SHE'S YOUR EX FOR A REASON...............

I KNOW but what if, she really is the, you don;t understand we just, blah blah blah.,etc.

IF YOU WANT GREAT SEX.............LOSE YOUR EX.

Been there done that...........THATS WHAT PUA DO.........we never go back, those that do are wusses.

FOUR LETTERS...................N-E-X-T. WAY WAY WAY........too many other chics out there. If your even considering going back you already sealed your fate BEFORE THE SEX BEGINS.

WHO CARES WHAT THE REASON WAS, who fricken cares if she wanted it............different chics have different va ginas........TIME TO UPGRADE


NUFF SAID.

M

Can't say I'm a huge fan of all the caps-lock but what you're saying is totally the truth! :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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