"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got a quick question... maybe pointless, but very quick :P

BannedGod

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How should you act around girls in whom you have interest? By that I simply mean: When you're alone with them, you act normally and all, have a good time with her, but when you're in a group, should you stick with her? Or just chill with other people and don't pay her too much attention?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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organizedconfusion

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i'd pay equal attention to everyone that was active in the group as well as trying to pull the less active ones in. I'd do little stuff to remind her shes mine,like wrap my arms around her occassionally and squeeze her,just alot of casual touching thrown in everynow and then. If you cling too much or focus too much on her it becomes weird IMO..it becomes less of a group thing and more of a you and her thing..but that's just me..
 

BannedGod

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organizedconfusion said:
i'd pay equal attention to everyone that was active in the group as well as trying to pull the less active ones in. I'd do little stuff to remind her shes mine,like wrap my arms around her occassionally and squeeze her,just alot of casual touching thrown in everynow and then. If you cling too much or focus too much on her it becomes weird IMO..it becomes less of a group thing and more of a you and her thing..but that's just me..
so basically, occasionnal Keno, but other then that, treat her like every other person in the group?
 

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maybe try not to think of it as treating her worse...try instead to treat everyone else real well too so that everyone is happy (with you)

don't be chumpish with anyone tho
 
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