"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Got a quick question... maybe pointless, but very quick :P

BannedGod

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How should you act around girls in whom you have interest? By that I simply mean: When you're alone with them, you act normally and all, have a good time with her, but when you're in a group, should you stick with her? Or just chill with other people and don't pay her too much attention?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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organizedconfusion

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i'd pay equal attention to everyone that was active in the group as well as trying to pull the less active ones in. I'd do little stuff to remind her shes mine,like wrap my arms around her occassionally and squeeze her,just alot of casual touching thrown in everynow and then. If you cling too much or focus too much on her it becomes weird IMO..it becomes less of a group thing and more of a you and her thing..but that's just me..
 

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organizedconfusion said:
i'd pay equal attention to everyone that was active in the group as well as trying to pull the less active ones in. I'd do little stuff to remind her shes mine,like wrap my arms around her occassionally and squeeze her,just alot of casual touching thrown in everynow and then. If you cling too much or focus too much on her it becomes weird IMO..it becomes less of a group thing and more of a you and her thing..but that's just me..
so basically, occasionnal Keno, but other then that, treat her like every other person in the group?
 

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maybe try not to think of it as treating her worse...try instead to treat everyone else real well too so that everyone is happy (with you)

don't be chumpish with anyone tho
 
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