"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got a quick question about calorie intakes

dankane

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Alright let me hit you with some background information.

I started working out about 2 years ago. Started off a little wrong and I was like working out like crazy, running, swimming, all kinds of stuff. I liked doing that but I was like lifting every day and doing all this stuff and wasn't really seeing any definite results so I revamped the whole thing.

I changed everything I ate and saw a massive difference. Ive been eating like this for about two months and it is going really well. I eat lean meats, wheat and complex carbs, fruit vegetables, water and thats it.

I have been lifting real heavy on top of this intake and so my muscles are defining themselves and im loosing the little bits of fat I have left.

nightime gets me though,
thats the problem i eat like three meals a day and then at night im talking about like 9-11, i have like a bowl of cereal and a sandwhich or something like snacks like that, still healthy, but late.

im wondering

1) if you think this is making any significant difference in my physical appearance

2) if i add cardio to my workout will this balance it out, and cuold i then eat whatever i want at night.
For the most part cardio is no existant in my workout, but i would have no problem adding some intense sprint level running every other day if i could eat my bowl of cereal every night
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EFFORT

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Walk on the treadmill at a light pace where you can keep a conversation the entire time ( 45min )first thing in the morning 4days a week.

Also cut carbs off 3-6 hours before bed. Eat lean meats, tuna, chicken, beef, cottage cheese, nuts, whey, eggs, veggies for your meals after cutting your carbs.
 
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