"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And would appretiate some help. I'm 24 years old decent looking, but a little shy around the ladys.................................My question is: I'm a journeyman plumber who recentely did a service call at a very beatiful 38 year old blondes house...................(lol, insert cheesy porn music here)

We really hit it off, mainly talking about our dogs and other pets...............Anyways, we made lots of eye contact and I felt some chemistry. She invited me to a dog park she goes to and 2 weeks later I decided to go. Long story short she hasnt been there the last 3 time I went

Sooooooooooo. Would you think it would be pathetic If I texted her by stealing her number off the invoice, which is still in my truck.............And what would be the smoothest non creepiest way of doing it, lol.

Thanx in advance to any advice.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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I'd venture a guess that taking her number off of the invoice would be unethical.

Maybe creep her on facebook and add her as a friend (if she's on there). Good way to ask what she's been up to and ask her for her number.

Don't expect much more than a bit of fun from a 38yr old at 24... It will never last but can be a hell of a lot of fun, for a while.
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
I'd venture a guess that taking her number off of the invoice would be unethical.

Maybe creep her on facebook and add her as a friend (if she's on there). Good way to ask what she's been up to and ask her for her number.

Don't expect much more than a bit of fun from a 38yr old at 24... It will never last but can be a hell of a lot of fun, for a while.
Thanx for the tip Bad Ass..................But theres just something about this Girl flowers:
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
huh?

Girl Flowers?

I don't get it.
Yeah, I ****ed that up, didnt I......................Tried to put that giving flowers emoticon in there:confused:..........................Anyways I'm still thinking about stealing the phone # LOL.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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