Heres the deal. I knew this girl back in h.s. We didn't date, but initially I think she was attracted to me, But she date dmy friend so nothing happened. Then a year later, they were broken up, we went on a school trip together, and started making out. She asked if I wanted to "do it" but I said no, like an idiot. Anyway, we didn't continue that afterwords, I was going to college anyway. Fast forward two years, I'm switching schools, now I'm going to go to her school next year. This causes my interest level in her to rise. I contact her a few weeks ago, tell her I'm transferring, she seems excited "oh awesome!" and happy to talk to me. We chit chat for about 14 minutes. At the end I say "hey, I'd like to hang out over thanxgiving break." She says "sure, totally!".
I call her up two days ago when I'm on break from work. She says hi, but she's babysitting, whines a bit about how shes been babysitting all week, and then we both start whispering so as to not wake the babies
She says she'll call me back. Eight hours later I text, saying "hey, u still creeping on infants? ". No response. Yesterday, at around twelve pm, I call again, no-one answers. Four hours later I call again, and leave a voicemail. It's a bit hurried because I'm at work, but I basically say "hey, this is kingofstl, since you're back in stl I'd like to take you out sometime. Do you like skating? Anyway, I have to get back to work, so get back to me, k? Thanks". I immediately send a text saying "hey, I left you a voicemail, could you get back to me on that? Thanks!" Its the next day and I haven't heard anything.
I talked to my friend and he went and creeped on her fb page, and said something about her having strep throat or something. I dunno. I tried to be confident, hell, I was confident, funny, all that. She seemed to enjoy talking to me. I'm taking this as a rejection right now, although the ambiguity really sucks. I dunno, thanks to my friend, if she has strep and just doesn't want to talk to anyone, or if shes ignoring me, or lost her phone, or whatever. Should I just drop this? I would like to take her out sometime, just a casual date like food or something, I guess I should've said that sooner. Is there any way of rescuing this situation? I'm planning, if I don't hear back from her, to just not contact until say winter break, then call and flat say hey, I'd like to get a bite to eat. ****, what the hell should I do here? Thanks guys, it's always good to get advice here.
I call her up two days ago when I'm on break from work. She says hi, but she's babysitting, whines a bit about how shes been babysitting all week, and then we both start whispering so as to not wake the babies
She says she'll call me back. Eight hours later I text, saying "hey, u still creeping on infants? ". No response. Yesterday, at around twelve pm, I call again, no-one answers. Four hours later I call again, and leave a voicemail. It's a bit hurried because I'm at work, but I basically say "hey, this is kingofstl, since you're back in stl I'd like to take you out sometime. Do you like skating? Anyway, I have to get back to work, so get back to me, k? Thanks". I immediately send a text saying "hey, I left you a voicemail, could you get back to me on that? Thanks!" Its the next day and I haven't heard anything. I talked to my friend and he went and creeped on her fb page, and said something about her having strep throat or something. I dunno. I tried to be confident, hell, I was confident, funny, all that. She seemed to enjoy talking to me. I'm taking this as a rejection right now, although the ambiguity really sucks. I dunno, thanks to my friend, if she has strep and just doesn't want to talk to anyone, or if shes ignoring me, or lost her phone, or whatever. Should I just drop this? I would like to take her out sometime, just a casual date like food or something, I guess I should've said that sooner. Is there any way of rescuing this situation? I'm planning, if I don't hear back from her, to just not contact until say winter break, then call and flat say hey, I'd like to get a bite to eat. ****, what the hell should I do here? Thanks guys, it's always good to get advice here.