"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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got a problem guys....keeping "it" up.

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my problem is in bed. I can pull a boner fine, but i can't seem to keep it up after a few minutes. I think it might be performance anxiety, or i'm just not into it anymore. I don't think it's the not i'm into in anymore, because i still want some. foreplay i can stay hard fine, but once it goes in, the said comes down after a few minutes. also it takes me a long time to ejaculate. i guess during my teen years, i felt more sexually stimulated even by the smallest touch from a girl. nowadays, it takes more to excite me. maybe it's too much porn over the years,too many partners, or too much wacking off. i don't now. its not with one girl, it has been with the couple of girls that the sail went down. i'm only in my late 20's. any suggestions?:eek: ..please dont say viagra.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jamesdl said:
i'm only in my late 20's. any suggestions?:eek: ..please dont say viagra.
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Warning: Cialis won't make the old women you're banging hot. Seek medical treatment immediately if you experience priapism - an erection lasting over four hours. Consult your doctor if you take nitrates for chest pains, as this may cause an unsafe drop in blood pressure.
 
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What's wrong with Viagra?

I tried it once. It worked great!

Otherwise, look up threads about increasing testosterone or enhancing sex drive
 
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its probably a few things.

lower testosterone for sure.

could also be the result of poor circulation. do you smoke? do you drink excessively? do you not exercise?

go to the dock and have all yoru fluid levels checked (ie. testosterone, blood pressure, etc.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have the same problem, I've had a negative mentality about women for a while and I've seen and experienced a little too much of everything, including porn daily for the past 6 years. It takes a lot more for me to get excited now than even a few years ago, I'm just not "wowed" and turned on as much as I used to be. I think it's all mental. I'm trying to give it up because I'm to the point now where it's hard for me to climax with a woman.

Start working out like joekerr31 said...testosterone plays a big part in it. To get the same effects I have to wait several more days in between instead of every day like I used to. Kind of makes me wonder if I'll completely lose interest in sex in the next 10 years.
 
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