got a problem guys....keeping "it" up.

[Jamesdl]

my problem is in bed. I can pull a boner fine, but i can't seem to keep it up after a few minutes. I think it might be performance anxiety, or i'm just not into it anymore. I don't think it's the not i'm into in anymore, because i still want some. foreplay i can stay hard fine, but once it goes in, the said comes down after a few minutes. also it takes me a long time to ejaculate. i guess during my teen years, i felt more sexually stimulated even by the smallest touch from a girl. nowadays, it takes more to excite me. maybe it's too much porn over the years,too many partners, or too much wacking off. i don't now. its not with one girl, it has been with the couple of girls that the sail went down. i'm only in my late 20's. any suggestions? ..please dont say viagra.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Fantasize.

 

[RedPill]

i'm only in my late 20's. any suggestions? ..please dont say viagra.

Warning: Cialis won't make the old women you're banging hot. Seek medical treatment immediately if you experience priapism - an erection lasting over four hours. Consult your doctor if you take nitrates for chest pains, as this may cause an unsafe drop in blood pressure.

 

[Ever onward]

What's wrong with Viagra?

I tried it once. It worked great!

Otherwise, look up threads about increasing testosterone or enhancing sex drive

 

[joekerr31]

its probably a few things.

lower testosterone for sure.

could also be the result of poor circulation. do you smoke? do you drink excessively? do you not exercise?

go to the dock and have all yoru fluid levels checked (ie. testosterone, blood pressure, etc.)

 

[Riegs]

I have the same problem, I've had a negative mentality about women for a while and I've seen and experienced a little too much of everything, including porn daily for the past 6 years. It takes a lot more for me to get excited now than even a few years ago, I'm just not "wowed" and turned on as much as I used to be. I think it's all mental. I'm trying to give it up because I'm to the point now where it's hard for me to climax with a woman.

Start working out like joekerr31 said...testosterone plays a big part in it. To get the same effects I have to wait several more days in between instead of every day like I used to. Kind of makes me wonder if I'll completely lose interest in sex in the next 10 years.