Got a number

[FatsTheScrapper]

So I met this girl at a party Friday night.

As soon as I saw her I had to talk to her.

As soon as I talked to her i knew I had to get her number.

I was chumming it up with her, making her laugh, yada yada, and asked where her boyfriend was.

She said she didnt have one.

Then I asked for her number. She seemed enthusiastic to give it to me, and even went so far as offering her cell and room number. She only had one beer so she wasn't that drunk even though it was her first time drinking. She wasn't slurring her speech or getting tipsy at all. I'd like to think her judgement was clear.

So...I call her the next night. Too soon, I know, but wtf, even I make mistakes. I leave a message.

Sunday and Monday pass and no return call.

Hmmm.

So I call her again this morning, she answers all groggy (fack!), said she got my message just was busy....

I said I'd call her back later on today.


She's got ME calling HER. This is going to be bad. :crackup:


I suppose she very well could have been busy, she does have finals this week...but a phonecall takes <5minutes, right?

Bottom line: I don't understand women. Should I next this one before giving it one more chance or just blow it off as is. Thing is that I really dig this chick and it seemed like she dug me.

 

[frivolousz21]

So...I call her the next night. Too soon, I know, but wtf, even I make mistakes. I leave a message.

the only time you call the next night...


wait there really is no reason! atleast wait 1 day!

wat the hell were u thinking?


ur ****ed..stop calling her...let her call you....if she doenst then move on..plenty fish in the sea!

you messed up this one bad.


learn from it

 

[FatsTheScrapper]

Ahhh, you're right.

She know's I'm interested by my first message. If she wants to go any further, she'll call me. And if not, F that b.itch. I've got more important things to do.

Maybe it'll piss her off that after I don't call her today...or ever. *evil laugh*

Muchos gracias.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

hey...I just want to say congratulations on steppin out of your comfort zone and approaching her, that took a lot of courage.

Just to add, make sure you setup a date first, before you get a numba. IF she accepts your date offer, than only get her numba as a way to confirm when you will be comin and what not...

as for your current situation, the problem wit callin women, is not to wait a certain time, but to have a reason and a purpose behind callin. A lot of girls will flake on you when you call, b/c they are sayin to themselves, why is he callin me?

You might say, well you give me your numba! Adn she will say, So! That means nothing!

And she is right buddy....what you want is her...and if she is willing to accept your date offer, than you have a reasn to call her, it will be less likely that she will flake on you this time...

but hey, you are out of your comfort zone, keep it up!

 

[LordBrian]

the only way to get better is to get hurt... just like working out... no microtears, no gain.



"she didnt return ur first call? NEXT -" sounds like dumb advice to me. I would try waiting a week if humanly possible then give it one last shot... you lose NOTHING by trying one more time... contrary to what some people say.

Besides, its more experience right?

Hehee, if only i listened to my own advice, eh?
:cheer:

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

lordbrian....hey man, that is an excellent insight...i just want to add..

learning from experience and learning from mistakes, does teach us a lesson, however, the issue with most of these experiences, is that we dont understand the lesson.....

From being a nice guy, we all got burned a lot, and the lesson we learned was that our approach was not good, but did we understand what we SHOULD have done, no not really....

The best way to learn is study, study the greeat examples, study the great teachings, then take those practices you learned, and practise them everyday and watch your game improve!

Practise does make perfect, but it is only the right practise that does that....go get em guys!

 

[FatsTheScrapper]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
hey...I just want to say congratulations on steppin out of your comfort zone and approaching her, that took a lot of courage.

Just to add, make sure you setup a date first, before you get a numba. IF she accepts your date offer, than only get her numba as a way to confirm when you will be comin and what not...

as for your current situation, the problem wit callin women, is not to wait a certain time, but to have a reason and a purpose behind callin. A lot of girls will flake on you when you call, b/c they are sayin to themselves, why is he callin me?

You might say, well you give me your numba! Adn she will say, So! That means nothing!

And she is right buddy....what you want is her...and if she is willing to accept your date offer, than you have a reasn to call her, it will be less likely that she will flake on you this time...

but hey, you are out of your comfort zone, keep it up!

Thanks for the props man. It's a step in the right direction, but Im a long ways away from where I want to be. But I saw, acted, and #closed, which is something I haven't done in a long time.

That is some good advice and something I had not thought of. I was feeling pretty confident that night and with the way we were talking, I don't doubt a date could have been set up. Live and learn.

I think I will also take LB's advice also. See what, if anything, happens in the next week or two, then make the last and final move. Can't hurt.