"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thephilosopher9

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ok, so I was trying the smiling at girls thing right? I'm at this audition for a youth symphony, and I smile at this girl. All of a sudden, as I get up, she gets up and goes and talks to me. And sits next to me, and talks some more. That is easy. Lesson one, if a girl likes you, she'll talk. Ok, I'm at another audition, and she pops up. Turns out, its her school I'm auditioning at and she's taking pics. So she goes pic crazy for me. Then she asks me how I performed. I said the results weren't out yet, but I'd tell her later. Response: "how can you tell me if you don't have my number?", so I hand her my cell, and there is her number in it, like magic. Its been a couple o days, I haven't called her, but will see her in like 2 more for rehearsal. All from a simple smile. But, I'm lost on what to do next...date? talk more? simple high school ask out?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, if you are interested in seeing something develop, call her! Wait till it has been 4 days (which I believe it has) and than call her. If she does not pick up, leave her a message. Hopefully you know how to leave a proper message. Most likely she will pick up (Take note the times you call her. If she is in high school, call on a weekday in the later evening, most probably 9 PM.)

Have a casual conversation with her, try to keep it less than 20 minutes in length and your primary focus for that call is to get to know her better, bust on her balls, and develop rapport with her. Also make sure you make a transition so that SHE calls you next time, don't plan it but say something a long the lines of "So I guess we'll talk later than.. but don't call me too soon, otherwise I'll have to file a restraining order against you!" ;)

After 3-4 days, she will call you, and your goal for that conversation is to meet her in person. These are all the different bridges to conversation you need to overcome. I'm sure you get the point.

Than you meet her, kiss her.. and next thing you know, you guys are together. Just make sure you think it over if you really want to do this with the girl, doesn't seem like you are too interested in her. If you aren't, I would wait.. if its anything I learned, there is no point going into a relationship with somebody who you are unsure whether you like or not, it's time consuming and pointless.

Hope I helped, best of luck!
 
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