"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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got a number the other day...

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So the other day I walk into borders bookstore and start browsing the Psychology section. I saw this girl on the other side of the store and could have sworn she took a peak at me because when I looked I think she looked away. She was smoking hot btw. Like a supermodel.

Well, then she comes over to the section I am in and starts looking at books. She got fairly close to me and all of a sudden I just said, "So you come here often?" Haha I know...cheesy. She looked at me and smiled and said, "Yeah, there isn't much else to do around here." So I made small talk with her for a bit, asked her waht she was drinking, etc. Then she pulls out her phone, asks me what my name is and adds me to her facebook. Tells me her name and shakes my hand.

I get home later and see her request on facebook. I accept and I see she is online with her status saying, "C***** needs something new." She IM's me and say's, "Hello bookstore friend..." We talk for a bit and then she just gives me her number without me even asking for it. Judging from the pictures, this girl is filthy rich lol and I'm not really at all...wow.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rofl at saying "You come her often?" at a book store... hilarious!!!!!!!!

Looks like she picked you up lol!
 

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yea, you didn't really game her, this is just a random encounter with a girl who's potentially looking for a rebound given her statement about wanting something/someone new. you're probably good looking and safe enough. it could be a consequence of your beta core.

step it up a notch, get sexual and quickly, forget how hot she is, right now she's nothing to you so whatever you do don't start day dreaming about her. game hard.
 

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wjh said:
yea, you didn't really game her, this is just a random encounter with a girl who's potentially looking for a rebound given her statement about wanting something/someone new. you're probably good looking and safe enough. it could be a consequence of your beta core.

step it up a notch, get sexual and quickly, forget how hot she is, right now she's nothing to you so whatever you do don't start day dreaming about her. game hard.

What makes you say this? My beta core!? Eh?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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