"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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got a number the other day...

Rhino22

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So the other day I walk into borders bookstore and start browsing the Psychology section. I saw this girl on the other side of the store and could have sworn she took a peak at me because when I looked I think she looked away. She was smoking hot btw. Like a supermodel.

Well, then she comes over to the section I am in and starts looking at books. She got fairly close to me and all of a sudden I just said, "So you come here often?" Haha I know...cheesy. She looked at me and smiled and said, "Yeah, there isn't much else to do around here." So I made small talk with her for a bit, asked her waht she was drinking, etc. Then she pulls out her phone, asks me what my name is and adds me to her facebook. Tells me her name and shakes my hand.

I get home later and see her request on facebook. I accept and I see she is online with her status saying, "C***** needs something new." She IM's me and say's, "Hello bookstore friend..." We talk for a bit and then she just gives me her number without me even asking for it. Judging from the pictures, this girl is filthy rich lol and I'm not really at all...wow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Prodigy746

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Rofl at saying "You come her often?" at a book store... hilarious!!!!!!!!

Looks like she picked you up lol!
 

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yea, you didn't really game her, this is just a random encounter with a girl who's potentially looking for a rebound given her statement about wanting something/someone new. you're probably good looking and safe enough. it could be a consequence of your beta core.

step it up a notch, get sexual and quickly, forget how hot she is, right now she's nothing to you so whatever you do don't start day dreaming about her. game hard.
 

Rhino22

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wjh said:
yea, you didn't really game her, this is just a random encounter with a girl who's potentially looking for a rebound given her statement about wanting something/someone new. you're probably good looking and safe enough. it could be a consequence of your beta core.

step it up a notch, get sexual and quickly, forget how hot she is, right now she's nothing to you so whatever you do don't start day dreaming about her. game hard.

What makes you say this? My beta core!? Eh?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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