"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got a number close on the bus.. and shes a MODEL!

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Ok.. yesterday at Uni.... on the way home.. there was a HB9 on the bus... and I manned it up and just sat next to her..

offered her some mints and noticed she didnt have her shoes on... and her boots were on the floor..

confidently.. i just said..Ha.. guess those boots weren't ment for walking?

she was extremely receptive and laughed really hard and we just hit it off from there. Talked A LOT and just flirted with her a lil here and there with a little kino. pretty good rapport.. and she played with her hair a lot. I maintained strong eye contact and good body language... we talked about her being a hairdresser.... where she came from.. beach parties... music.. etc etc... so at the end before she left I asked her for her number... she grabbed my phone of me and typed it in herself...

shes 16-17? and studying to be a hairdresser.. and has participated in national modeling competitions and came 3rd and 4th...

so eyah just thought i'd share my experience and that girls are SOO not hard to approach

Also.. the moment you stop wanting a Girlfriend.. chix start flocking to you.. its kinda funny.. i stopped feeling the need for a gf.. and i've been getting close hookups and just meeting a lot of different and new people!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just Another Guy.... said:
If she goes to the university, she's not 16.
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He never said she was, he said he's from uni, and that she's 16/17 and studying to be a hairdresser.
 
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Nice one Brother! :rockon:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That's great, man!

LOL, I love the comment "Those boots weren't meant for walking" that was perfect..


Way to hit it off
 
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That's a perfect example of natural game, on the fly.

Well done, now make sure you follow up nicely with the number.

But 17 still ain't legal...

Btw, I get the feeling you're from Aus, are you?
 
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WHAT a cool opener...highly natural and fits perfectly into the situation - you are the man bro!:rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is the deal with New Zealanders being barefoot all the time??
 
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Lol beats me... But yeah... thanks for the comments guys.. Havent txted her yet will get round to doing it tomorrow!

Shes actualy not a New Zealander... and neither am I..

Shes from England... and Im from Malaysia so yeah :)

BTW in NZ.. the legal age for sex is 16.
 
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Lust said:
That's a perfect example of natural game, on the fly.

Well done, now make sure you follow up nicely with the number.

But 17 still ain't legal...

Btw, I get the feeling you're from Aus, are you?
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17 isnt legal to **** (not that anyone follows that law anyway), but u can hang out, make out, and do lotsa stuff that is legal, including showing the trophy b1tch out when your in public!
 
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ian1988 said:
confidently.. i just said..Ha.. guess those boots weren't ment for walking?
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that right there is an example of an excellent direct approach
 
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Real said:
17 isnt legal to **** (not that anyone follows that law anyway), but u can hang out, make out, and do lotsa stuff that is legal, including showing the trophy b1tch out when your in public!
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Yes in Australia and New Zealand 16 is legal to **** for all ages above.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ian1988 said:
Lol beats me... But yeah... thanks for the comments guys.. Havent txted her yet will get round to doing it tomorrow!

Shes actualy not a New Zealander... and neither am I..

Shes from England... and Im from Malaysia so yeah :)

BTW in NZ.. the legal age for sex is 16.
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If I were you, I'd call rather than txt. I personally find it harder to call later on if our first phone contact was a txt. But if you can, you can always txt again later, plus, txting seems like the pvssy way.

And don't take the whole "Wait 3 days before calling or you'll seem too eager" rule too seriously, you want her memory of you to be fresh when you call, or she'll forget all about the positive emotional state she was in when she met you.
 
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well shes no 1st or 2nd place lol, but yeh nice approach, reminds me of an approach my friend did with some biscuits on a bus lmao.
 
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Real said:
that right there is an example of an excellent direct approach
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Lol thats direct? Didnt really know/care.. Was what seemed like the best situational opener to get conversation flowing!
 
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