"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got a number close on the bus.. and shes a MODEL!

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Ok.. yesterday at Uni.... on the way home.. there was a HB9 on the bus... and I manned it up and just sat next to her..

offered her some mints and noticed she didnt have her shoes on... and her boots were on the floor..

confidently.. i just said..Ha.. guess those boots weren't ment for walking?

she was extremely receptive and laughed really hard and we just hit it off from there. Talked A LOT and just flirted with her a lil here and there with a little kino. pretty good rapport.. and she played with her hair a lot. I maintained strong eye contact and good body language... we talked about her being a hairdresser.... where she came from.. beach parties... music.. etc etc... so at the end before she left I asked her for her number... she grabbed my phone of me and typed it in herself...

shes 16-17? and studying to be a hairdresser.. and has participated in national modeling competitions and came 3rd and 4th...

so eyah just thought i'd share my experience and that girls are SOO not hard to approach

Also.. the moment you stop wanting a Girlfriend.. chix start flocking to you.. its kinda funny.. i stopped feeling the need for a gf.. and i've been getting close hookups and just meeting a lot of different and new people!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just Another Guy.... said:
If she goes to the university, she's not 16.
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He never said she was, he said he's from uni, and that she's 16/17 and studying to be a hairdresser.
 
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Nice one Brother! :rockon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's great, man!

LOL, I love the comment "Those boots weren't meant for walking" that was perfect..


Way to hit it off
 
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That's a perfect example of natural game, on the fly.

Well done, now make sure you follow up nicely with the number.

But 17 still ain't legal...

Btw, I get the feeling you're from Aus, are you?
 
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WHAT a cool opener...highly natural and fits perfectly into the situation - you are the man bro!:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is the deal with New Zealanders being barefoot all the time??
 
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Lol beats me... But yeah... thanks for the comments guys.. Havent txted her yet will get round to doing it tomorrow!

Shes actualy not a New Zealander... and neither am I..

Shes from England... and Im from Malaysia so yeah :)

BTW in NZ.. the legal age for sex is 16.
 
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Lust said:
That's a perfect example of natural game, on the fly.

Well done, now make sure you follow up nicely with the number.

But 17 still ain't legal...

Btw, I get the feeling you're from Aus, are you?
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17 isnt legal to **** (not that anyone follows that law anyway), but u can hang out, make out, and do lotsa stuff that is legal, including showing the trophy b1tch out when your in public!
 
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ian1988 said:
confidently.. i just said..Ha.. guess those boots weren't ment for walking?
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that right there is an example of an excellent direct approach
 
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Real said:
17 isnt legal to **** (not that anyone follows that law anyway), but u can hang out, make out, and do lotsa stuff that is legal, including showing the trophy b1tch out when your in public!
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Yes in Australia and New Zealand 16 is legal to **** for all ages above.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ian1988 said:
Lol beats me... But yeah... thanks for the comments guys.. Havent txted her yet will get round to doing it tomorrow!

Shes actualy not a New Zealander... and neither am I..

Shes from England... and Im from Malaysia so yeah :)

BTW in NZ.. the legal age for sex is 16.
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If I were you, I'd call rather than txt. I personally find it harder to call later on if our first phone contact was a txt. But if you can, you can always txt again later, plus, txting seems like the pvssy way.

And don't take the whole "Wait 3 days before calling or you'll seem too eager" rule too seriously, you want her memory of you to be fresh when you call, or she'll forget all about the positive emotional state she was in when she met you.
 
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well shes no 1st or 2nd place lol, but yeh nice approach, reminds me of an approach my friend did with some biscuits on a bus lmao.
 
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Real said:
that right there is an example of an excellent direct approach
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Lol thats direct? Didnt really know/care.. Was what seemed like the best situational opener to get conversation flowing!
 
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