"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got a Milf - Week #1 Boot Camp

ARK

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This was awesome so I had to share.

Ok, so I read the boot camp for Week #1 and have been doing the exercise of establishing eye contact. Well last night I was at dinner with my mother and I see this attractive older woman (probably early 40's), thin, nice legs, etc. with her family. The husband, daughter, son and his friends were there.

I was watching her get her drink and locked eyes as she looked up and saw me then quickly glanced away. She went to sit down with her family then got back up to get the food. As she was walking by she looked at me and we locked eyes again I smiled and as she got by our table she gave me a big smile. YES!!!

After she sat back down I saw her look over at me periodically. That was awesome. Here she is sitting with her husband and kids and looking at me. Nice!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jake-inator

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Kind of disapointed actually, was expecting something a bit different when i looked at this thread.

Maybe she was just being friendly... you know normal people smile all the time.
I had a guy smile at me yesterday, doesn't mean he was digging me...
At least i sure hope he wasn't. :D

Actually same thing happened to me with this spanish milf, she locked eyes and we both smiled and then she procedeeded to follow me into the next 3 ailes while shaking her booty, and kept smiling... it got kind of awkward if you know what i mean. Then i saw her at the exit, just standing there when i was leaving and she smiled at me again...

I should probably mention that i was with my mom at the store... otherwise it wouldn't have been so awkward.
 

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Either way though, it's still a good confidence booster for a Week #1 Boot camper. Keep up the good work!
 

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It was a good confidence booster. I was giving her the look and she knew I was looking at her. When she smiled.. she gave me a big smile.:D
 

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The journey of a 1,000 miles begins with the first step. It's great you got a boost of confidence, but don't get too excited yet. It's just a smile, next time when you say you got a MILF I'm expecting a field report of having a threesome with her and a daughter, no less. Go get em tiger.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey ark, all I got to say is that you did GREAT BRO. You did something that a million other AFCS would never have done. At least your above them all =). Keep up the good work and keep pushing for more !
 
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