"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got a Milf - Week #1 Boot Camp

ARK

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This was awesome so I had to share.

Ok, so I read the boot camp for Week #1 and have been doing the exercise of establishing eye contact. Well last night I was at dinner with my mother and I see this attractive older woman (probably early 40's), thin, nice legs, etc. with her family. The husband, daughter, son and his friends were there.

I was watching her get her drink and locked eyes as she looked up and saw me then quickly glanced away. She went to sit down with her family then got back up to get the food. As she was walking by she looked at me and we locked eyes again I smiled and as she got by our table she gave me a big smile. YES!!!

After she sat back down I saw her look over at me periodically. That was awesome. Here she is sitting with her husband and kids and looking at me. Nice!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jake-inator

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Kind of disapointed actually, was expecting something a bit different when i looked at this thread.

Maybe she was just being friendly... you know normal people smile all the time.
I had a guy smile at me yesterday, doesn't mean he was digging me...
At least i sure hope he wasn't. :D

Actually same thing happened to me with this spanish milf, she locked eyes and we both smiled and then she procedeeded to follow me into the next 3 ailes while shaking her booty, and kept smiling... it got kind of awkward if you know what i mean. Then i saw her at the exit, just standing there when i was leaving and she smiled at me again...

I should probably mention that i was with my mom at the store... otherwise it wouldn't have been so awkward.
 

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Either way though, it's still a good confidence booster for a Week #1 Boot camper. Keep up the good work!
 

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It was a good confidence booster. I was giving her the look and she knew I was looking at her. When she smiled.. she gave me a big smile.:D
 

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The journey of a 1,000 miles begins with the first step. It's great you got a boost of confidence, but don't get too excited yet. It's just a smile, next time when you say you got a MILF I'm expecting a field report of having a threesome with her and a daughter, no less. Go get em tiger.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey ark, all I got to say is that you did GREAT BRO. You did something that a million other AFCS would never have done. At least your above them all =). Keep up the good work and keep pushing for more !
 
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