got a little situation on my hands

[Chamber36]

got a little situation on my hands
So my aunty sent me this girl from America.
I'm feeling uneasy about it because she texted me: "I'm busy until 3 o'clock. I will text you after and maybe we'll get together for coffee or something".
Now I might be reading into this too much, but she's trying to force me to schedule my day according to her plans.

So I texted her: "let me know before 3 O'clock. I don't wanna be out too late."
I been trying to play it cool, especially because I gotta take a train ride to see her in the first place. It's just because my aunty sent me this girl that I basically have to go see her.

What do you guys think of this situation? She was told to contact me and I'd "take care" of her. What does that entail?

I especially don't like being put on hold all the way until tomorrow afternoon. That's the crap that a girl I'm in the FZ with tries to pull on me, and I always expect an impending flake.
I'm even expecting a flake from this girl tomorrow.

She's American.... So I guess I'll be finding out soon what American girls are all about.... From what I can know they are not easy... Why all this psycho-chess crap? I gotta nip that in the bud.

Anyone have any advice for me? She's tattooed up all over her body and pierced too, so I just hope that she's feminine and girly.... But she doesn't seem to be from what I'm reading off these texts. I think she's an AW who needs constant reassurance.

And I've been sent this girl by my own Aunt.... I haven't met her yet, but she seems to be making me jump through hoops already....

I was actually thinking of making her take a train ride to come see me, which is what I really should do. It doesn't matter so much to me though because it doesn't take too long.

I think that may be where I went wrong though, stroking her ego too much by being willing to visit her.

I could always tell her to take a train, but that would be one hell of a curve-ball, suddenly coming from me tomorrow.

Opinions??

 

[PokerStar]

ok so your aunty set you up on a blind date. which is cool. so hey, she could be a gem in the rough.

just play it cool and she is probably trying to play it cool on her end. I think its more uncomfortable for her to actually do this for your aunt.

so be cool be cool dude. dont read into what she texts or how she can be an AW. you dont know that yet until you actually have a live interaction with her.

just meet her half way and take it form there. even if you end up hooking with this chick, she could have hotter friends.

every new interaction you have, could be an opportunity. its all about perception.

 

[Chamber36]

she texted me back that she will text me tomorrow. If she flakes I'll go NC for a while.

She also doesn't want to be out late. I guess I'll just have to go see her tomorrow afternoon. I am used to putting women in their place because of work, actually.

She's already made me alert with her tiny little red flags, so I don't think I'll drop the ball on this one.

 

[PokerStar]

report back!

 

[Chamber36]

Alright I just got back from my evening out with that girl.

In one word she was DESPERATE. Her IL was about a 15/10. Her conversational repertoir consisted of no more than simple likes and dislikes. At first I think these 2 other people were laughing about how boring our conversations were, maybe even the contrast between my game and her incredible obliviousness. I eventually dropped in some sexual innuendo's, and later on some inspiring talk consisting of incoherent sentences with a number of 5 syllable words in them. At the end of the sentence(which I don't think I actually completed), I saw that there was a group of guys on my left listening to me and checking out my game, trying not to burst out laughing at how compelled I had this girl by complete bull****. I know none of them understood what I had said, but she was sure impressed. She also showed me some pictures on her phone (no not of her cats THANK GOD), and when I brought her back to the train station to part she was waiting for that kiss goodbye but I decided not to give it to her.
She also casually mentioned that she was so entirely overstimulated by everything in Amsterdam but that she's totally open to everything. Translation: She's DTF.

She's also leaving the country in 2 months, so all in all, my aunty sent me some of the easiest most desperate girl I've seen in months.
If I ever want to get laid anytime soon, I guess I won't have to go by the Red Light District but I could just drop by her, amp up the sexual tension, and make it seem like "It just happened". We also did about 3 venue changes so she will feel like she knows me really well and I'm super trustworthy and everything.
Also, when parting she mentioned meeting up next week, so damn this girl is DESPERAAAAATE.

She was very compliant and submissive though, and was qualifying herself to me 100% of the time. So I could certainly turn her into my b!tch.
When we got in the coffeeshop, I made her walk downstairs and get me some coffee, and at the end of the night, she bought me dinner. So YAY for me!!
If she hadn't bought me dinner I would be pissed off. It sure is a relief being away from her again though. My assumption that she needs constant reassurance was correct, though she's luckily not much of an AW.

Edit: BTW I also want to inform you how I got my pimp swag on, I just stroll in the lounge with 1 arm ****ed up, I order a drink and the girl slips me money. That's when I noticed both female bartenders acknowledge my game. Small little incident, but I was observing my body-language and it was simply pimp-esque, a little mackish, really. This may be due to listening and reading a lot of Tariq Nasheed. The stuff he teaches is perfect for me right now.

 

[Zarky]

heh, keep in mind you guys are in your early 20s. Don't try to analyze women that young, they have no idea how the world works. Or any idea how they personally work for that matter. Or anything about men. Women only start to get interesting when they're late 20s and into their 30s.