Okay I'm just a rookie and I have read you wait at least 2 or 3 days to call a girl to hang out with you. We realy hit it off Kinoing for the two of us were at least 8 out of 10 the whole night. Busting one another ,****y funny one another and teasing one another. And the end of the night we end up kissing in the mouth and we told one another we should hang out. But the thing is she is only in my town for the weekend. But she does regularly come and visit my town periodically. Since she is from here originally and she lives about 2 hours away. So my question is should I call her today and ask her to hang out with me tomorrow or just wait until she comes back again and god know when that would be. Thanks any input would help.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Got a kiss and digit last night
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Strike while the iron is hot, i can't believe you are asking this!
p should I text her 2nite and if she replied call her and set up a date for tomorrow? Or is it too late already?scrouds
Master Don Juan
Did you wind up setting anything up?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.