Hey, this Saturday i got the number of a Hot chick. I told her i would call her when i have the time. She lives about 50 minutes from me and would like to call her tonight, do you think i waited long enough to call and how do u suggest i go about taking this girl on a date in her area when im not familiar with it ?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Chemistry
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Options...
Scope out an area that you're both not familiar with and take her there... OR you must be familiar with places outside of your area, places that are somewhere in between that 50 minute journey... that way nobody's too comfortable or awkward cos the playin field is levelled out with nobody being in their own backyard
As far as arrangin weekend dates go, some poll was ran and Wednesday came up as the day for it... it shows you got on with the first part of the week, now you're about layin plans for the end of it...
Scope out an area that you're both not familiar with and take her there... OR you must be familiar with places outside of your area, places that are somewhere in between that 50 minute journey... that way nobody's too comfortable or awkward cos the playin field is levelled out with nobody being in their own backyard
As far as arrangin weekend dates go, some poll was ran and Wednesday came up as the day for it... it shows you got on with the first part of the week, now you're about layin plans for the end of it...
HollowHorizon
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Go with your gut
honeyshark
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Good for you!
But remember that getting the number is one of the easier parts of picking up girls. Getting the first and then second date is much harder.
Peace.
But remember that getting the number is one of the easier parts of picking up girls. Getting the first and then second date is much harder.
Peace.
Ok, i called this girl today i got her voice mail and left a message she called back and she seemed really nervous... i told her during the phone message i would be up her way sometime next week, not sure what day and would like to get together with her. She said when she called back anyday would be good for her, she tried to talk on the phone but i hate phone convo and said i gotta run, i will call you and let you know when i was comming up. DO you think shes excited about the date and thats why shes nervous ? or do you think its because we only met once before... i dunno i read into things ?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You should know that phone conversations = rapport with female. Don't listen to other DJs that say 'TALK LESS' If she "tried" to talk on the phone she wants to know who you are. If you want to keep convo short, just cut it to 30 min then. Not 10 min like so called DJs say. If someone gives me a 5-10 min call, it's either about a last minute friends meeting or a reminder. That is exactly how a girl will feel if you do that. DJs say keep it short because it prevents them from saying stupid stuff. The key is - to not say stupid stuff.Originally posted by heater528
Ok, i called this girl today i got her voice mail and left a message she called back and she seemed really nervous... i told her during the phone message i would be up her way sometime next week, not sure what day and would like to get together with her. She said when she called back anyday would be good for her, she tried to talk on the phone but i hate phone convo and said i gotta run, i will call you and let you know when i was comming up. DO you think shes excited about the date and thats why shes nervous ? or do you think its because we only met once before... i dunno i read into things ?
Do you wanna know what a 5 min call equates to? It's like online personals and all you see is a name. No face, No height, No weight, Nothing. You think you'll be interested in a girl that puts out more info or a girl that just leaves her name?
white_hype
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its all relativeOriginally posted by DJ_Dork
You should know that phone conversations = rapport with female. Don't listen to other DJs that say 'TALK LESS' If she "tried" to talk on the phone she wants to know who you are. If you want to keep convo short, just cut it to 30 min then. Not 10 min like so called DJs say. If someone gives me a 5-10 min call, it's either about a last minute friends meeting or a reminder. That is exactly how a girl will feel if you do that. DJs say keep it short because it prevents them from saying stupid stuff. The key is - to not say stupid stuff.
Do you wanna know what a 5 min call equates to? It's like online personals and all you see is a name. No face, No height, No weight, Nothing. You think you'll be interested in a girl that puts out more info or a girl that just leaves her name?
if you had good rappaport when you first met her (ie talked to her for a long time) then i wouldnt spend more than 10 mins on the phone with her... pretty much EVER. Trust me, the good story you want to tell her, the questions you want to ask her, are ALL MUCH BETTER when done in person. What i like to do is if i have a good story or something ill say "i have the craziest sotry to tell you but i gotta run, lets do something on xxx and ill tell you." or something like that... when i see them in person they are dying to know what the story was (builds anticipation, keeps them thinking about you until the date, etc)