got a girlfriend and wanna take it 2 nxt level...kinda pathetic and need help

[shark]

I am in highschool, however, i feel like i can use the help of the more experienced DJ's around here.


Anyway, we we've been going out for a few months. Recently i came back after being away for 6 weeks and at first it was kind a weird. However, after about a week it's starting to feel good again and we started making out and being a little touchy but this is as far as we have been.

Before i went away and we hung out alone for our first time, i'd thought we'd make out alot and maybe other stuff..INSTEAD in was awkward and we didn't even kiss untill we got to a friends hbouse w/ opther people there.

She, i admit, is one who loves attention. Howeever, i want to start advancing the relationshio and get some BJ's, and maybe finger her a bit...it's just not going to happend when were in our friends living room and 10 of our friends are 20 feet away.

Yeah, we can hang out alone..but it'd feel awkward for us both. How do you suggest i go about this stuff. Thanks

Sorry, i'm a little intoxicated right now if this doesnt make much sense

thanks in advance

 

[Android]

I'm no expert dj here, but if you are awkward yourself about being alone with her, you really have to get your mind in check. I think you need to tame your emotions and take control, make a move on her. You are a man, and she is a woman - you shouldn't feel awkward about it.

You are probably sitting there all awkward, which makes her feel awkward, and the whole time she is probably thinking, "Do something, dude! Take me!"

 

[shark]

no i should add..when we were alone I did not feel awkward. HOWEVER, i felt that she felt awkward which is what made me feel kinda upset and started me awkward. Maybe the keeps is making her feel fine b/c i DID be4 she showed me she felt awkward.

 

[Brian20o2]

Originally posted by shark
Sorry, i'm a little intoxicated right now if this doesnt make much sense

:crackup:
no advice just thought that was funny

 

[Android]

get her drunk then, both of you even

 

[nishbuk]

Originally posted by shark
no i should add..when we were alone I did not feel awkward. HOWEVER, i felt that she felt awkward which is what made me feel kinda upset and started me awkward. Maybe the keeps is making her feel fine b/c i DID be4 she showed me she felt awkward.

But guy...That's has the same effect as you initially feeling akward.

If she's akward, it does not mean that you have to be akward. Make a move when you are alone! Show her that she should WANT to be with you! How do you do that? Show her that she is desirable to you when you are alone.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Part of it is probably the vibe of desperation that you are giving off, and she is detecting, even if only subconsciously. You have to approach the situation with the attitude of "I can, but I won't" - not, "please, please, I'm desperate."

Setting up the situation is your job as the man. Plan as much as you can, but never let her know that anything is planned. Get her alone in a way that seems like an accident. Then steal her frame - tease her about her wanting you. Tell her that you don't want her to think you're too easy, etc. When you start to get physical, remember that with women it is all about anticipation. David Deagelo uses the phrase "1 step forward, 2 steps back." Rub her body all over, except for her tits, ass, and crotch. If you do this correctly and tease her long enough, she will be rubing her tits against you and humping your leg - your cue to slowly and gradually take things to the next level.