"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got a drunk phone call

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So about 2 days ago, this girl that I used to have interest in called me after she had been drinking. I haven't talked to this girl in about 2 months. I didn't pick up because I didn't have my phone with me, but she left me 2 messages, talking about how she really liked how I asked her to formal (I put a teddy bear and a note on her desk before she got to class, but ended up getting a no.) and she really wanted to talk to me and see me. What should I do? I figured I would wait until tomorrow to give her a call back. Any tips on what I should do from there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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a drunk (wo)man always speaks the truth. all the games they play can go right out the window...thats why a drunk girl is easier. they dont bullshiit around, they know what they want.
 
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dannowillbookem said:
a drunk (wo)man always speaks the truth. all the games they play can go right out the window...thats why a drunk girl is easier. they dont bullshiit around, they know what they want.
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Which is too have sex with anybody. :crazy:
 
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This is stupid. She turned you down once, don't give her any illusion that you want her back. If she does want you back, make her show it sober.

Remember, you are the catch. Don't go talking to her just because she said some drunken things to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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