"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got a drunk phone call

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So about 2 days ago, this girl that I used to have interest in called me after she had been drinking. I haven't talked to this girl in about 2 months. I didn't pick up because I didn't have my phone with me, but she left me 2 messages, talking about how she really liked how I asked her to formal (I put a teddy bear and a note on her desk before she got to class, but ended up getting a no.) and she really wanted to talk to me and see me. What should I do? I figured I would wait until tomorrow to give her a call back. Any tips on what I should do from there?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a drunk (wo)man always speaks the truth. all the games they play can go right out the window...thats why a drunk girl is easier. they dont bullshiit around, they know what they want.
 
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dannowillbookem said:
a drunk (wo)man always speaks the truth. all the games they play can go right out the window...thats why a drunk girl is easier. they dont bullshiit around, they know what they want.
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Which is too have sex with anybody. :crazy:
 
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This is stupid. She turned you down once, don't give her any illusion that you want her back. If she does want you back, make her show it sober.

Remember, you are the catch. Don't go talking to her just because she said some drunken things to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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