"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Got a Drink Thrown at Me
- Thread starter AbsolutBeirut
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Bussey said:LOL, hahaha that's hillarious! Lol, too top it off, you should have finished with
'Wow, now we're both wet.'
Thats one of my favorite answers
say it totally deadpan for maximum results
its not stupid it works.. u use it one girls who need it tho.. not just randomly.. i think people confuse C+F and negging sometimes
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I said, "where?" with a completely straight face.
She stared at me and said "that's not funny."
Shrug i wasn't trying to be funny. I just wanted to see what would happen. I'm such a girl.