"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Got a digital camera?

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This has probably already been said, but I figured I'd throw it out there, just in case it hasn't.

Whenever I go out to the club, bars, pretty much everywhere, I keep a digital camera on me.

Now you can use this many many ways to open or close with a girl.

Example:

DJ: Hey.. would you mind taking a picture of me and my friends?
HB: Sure

*takes picture*

this can go a couple different ways.... instantly start C&F or be nice

DJ: *takes a look at the picture* oh man... i blinked... tell you what... take another picture, and i'll dance with you later...

or

DJ: *takes a look at the picture* this is a pretty good picture... *show her the picture* you should be a professional or something.. what's your name ?(and carry on from there)

even if you haven't built up a solid relationship with a girl you can still get her to take a picture with you. give your camera to a friend (who you trust!) and tell him to take a picture of you and a girl, but don't let her see you do this.

Example:

You're there with HB talking about whatever

Friend: Aye... why don't you guys take a picture together?
DJ: Alright then..

*friend takes picture*

Show the girl the picture. She's gonna either, say, "I don't like it... take another" or "OMG, this looks so good you need to send it to me."

Even if she doesn't ask you to send it to her, offer to send it to her. This is your excuse to get some information out of her. I would say get the phone number and tell her that you'll call to get the email later.

There are so many possibilites with a digital camera. Be creative and use your imagination. You can get a decent camera for cheap. Be sure to get one that has a big screen. Girls are gonna wanna see the picture and don't wanna squint to see the picture.

Let me know what you guys think.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I always bring my camera when I go out. It's a great prop, and a lot of girls go all googly when they get a chance to have their picture taken.

Mine has a movie function on it too... which is great for recording your drunk-ass friends!
 

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Good tip. Girls love pictures and cameras, period.
 

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Kev07 said:
but this kind of approach seems so preplanned
The point is to break whatever shields she might have down. By asking her to do you a favor she doesn't seem threatned by you. Every girl wants to help unless she's a total b**** and in that case, you don't wanna talk to her anyway.

If she's already talking to you and your friend comes over, who cares if she thinks it's rehearsed. This is just an excuse to get an email address, or even better a phone number.

Eitherway, it's just a little tip I use. It's worked for me, so I figured I'd share. It's up to you all to decide if you wanna use it or not.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've never seen any man walking around with a camera at a club or bar get any pootang

Maybe you're the first :p
 

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This is a great tactic. Good for parties. Personally I don't know if it would work in clubs or bars, but parties and hanging out at the beach are great venues for using the camera pick up. You can also forget the digital camera and get yourself a nice camera phone its a lot better. If the girl says she wants you to send her the pic you don't need her email just get the number and forward it to her phone. Plus its a lot easier to carry and less feminine to use a good camera/video phone.
 

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The smoke and spilled booze could destroy your camera, if it is good one.
I would never risk my Sony P200 for some cheap pvssy.
 

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edmond said:
The smoke and spilled booze could destroy your camera, if it is good one.
I would never risk my Sony P200 for some cheap pvssy.
For me, you are partially right. Drunk people are always bound to spill something on you, especially if you're dressed better than them. this is why i tend to stay away from a crowded dance floor and not drink as much when i'm dressed really nice. that way i can keep an eye on the drunkards. as far as smoke goes... No smoking inside buildings in california. :-D
 

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Its great for keeping yourself at your best state.

Looking back at the numerous women you have been with just re-boosts your ego and confidence.

Plus, its great fun to show off to friends :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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