Got a date in with a hot russin girl, wanna sexualise it! help?

[Spade]

Waddup guys,

Im meetin up with a cute russin girl at tim hortons in 2days.

Im supposed to help her with math n ****... but this isnt like a study get together thing.

Shes into me... n i feel shes watin for me to sexualise it... its just i need a few tricks of the trade... im basically gonna kino her, but i really wanna hookup with her.

Just some info bout me: im an alpha n she knows that, n ive got gud experience wen it comes to foreplay just not in this enviornment.

So ma objectives to hookup with her, plus make her ma gf (obviously not now, but in the future perhaps)... shes got my eye out of all the other girls ive been meetin up with.

So if u guys cud be cool enough to give me some advice on how to sexualise it, and how to set ma self up for round 2, id appreciate it.

Pce

 

[eaglez1177]

When you sit across from her, maybe you can try to play a little game of "footsies" to get some kino going. Or while your eating you can outstretch your arms on the table a lil bit more than normal, and you can comment on something about her hands or fingers and initiate some kino there. Would be even better if you wound up holding hands with her while talking to her.

Kinoing a girl pretty much is sexualizing things.

But if you really wanna sexualize it besides using kino, simply just get into a deep conversation about something with her and relate it to something sexual, or just try to talk about sexual things in the conversation altogether.

A few tips: Look her in the eys when she talks, smile, be confident, dont slouch, sit up straight, dont look uptight, be relaxed, etc.

How is she planning on getting there and coming home? Do you have a car to pick her up with? If so, you can easily hookup with her in the car after dinner or when you take her home. And how about after dinner you guys go get dessert somewhere, and then share an ice cream? I did this once with a chick and we both wound up licking and eating the cone of ice cream at the same time, and it led to an instant hookup cuz we were so up close.

As for round 2, instead of asking her, make it a suggestion. "Hey i had a lot of fun with you tonight, how bout we hang out again sometime" <=or say something along the lines of that. Notice how I said "hang out" instead of "go out" or "go out and get dinner" or "get a bite to eat", etc. Reason being is because if you say "hang out" this gives you the opportunity to invite you over your place, or chill at hers.

 

[Spade]

hehe dude... thx for the advice

It turned out sick, we hooked up 3 times n i think she might be my new gf.

U know how in like kungfu they make you to kata's n shyt... and then suddenly wen ur in a fight one day u start using the techniques.

Well, the same thing happened i built attraction, a lil kino, n then i went for isolation.
Then it came to me naturally, n i used this line wen the correct vibe was ther " Im tryin real hard not to kiss u right now". After her response i went in.

We hooked up 3 times in total... n we setup another date. I actually used ur " hangout" line n it was pretty decent.

But still, how do u make her ur gf...like offically n shyt(fb)... shud i ask her if she wants to start somethin or what??

Again, overall it went well... Ma Day games improved son!

 

[eaglez1177]

^Great job!! Good to see some ppl are improving from the advice on this board!

But as for the gf thing, I think you def need to slow down with that. It seems to me like you just met this chick not too long ago at all, and from what it sounds like, the date at tim hortons was the first time you guys hooked up. From this point on, the actual amount of times you guys hook up is irrelevant, now its just about having the right chemistry, getting to know her well enough, and then making your decision on whether or not to make her your gf.

Your confidence and ego is really inflated right now (not to say thats a bad thing), and its prolly the reason why you want to make her your gf already and kinda rush into things. This can turn out bad because if you do ask her to be your gf already, she could just give you an honest answer and say "hey, not so fast im not ready yet, we just met and just started to get to know each other, I want to get to know you better" (or something along the lines of that, but either way, that would def strike a heavy blow to your confidence)

Your so excited and happy from the first date that its clouded your judgment a little, which is why you're so eager to make her your gf when you should really hang out with her more, figure out what kind of girl she is, get to know her better, and then (like i said) decide if making her your gf is the right move.

So my advice from now is to just keep on hanging out with her, and see how things go from there. Then you can come back here and we'll give you advice on how to actually ask her to be your gf .

 

[Spade]

lmao bro... this was just a field report... im not like that excited to fuk her n shyt... alpha's take it slow n we have options.

So dnt wry lol im not a newbie .

But like you said i gotta get to know her first, she might end up being a psychotic mega hore who fuk's fruit...who’d know?

I just need to know how to make that transition to gf and bf. If u guys could tell me how, n like the things i need to say...id appreciate it.

Im probly gonna bring up the gf – bf discussion after a few more dates.

 

[Spade]

lol what was her response?

she actually didnt say anything she made a look on her face that shout out " its okay wat r u watin for " so i went in....n i moved my index finger from her cheeks slowly to her face n our lips touched and we started hookin up.

 

[sageproduct]

just read this, interesting...howd it turn out?

 

[Spade]

It dint work out... instead i got into a fight with some of the guys on the forum cuz they were tryin to act tough lol.

But again this forums soft... check "venusianarts" if u wanna become a playa it has some good shyt.

pce