"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got a chance with a HB10, but something is wrong...

Moofahsa

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Lemme just give a little bit of whats going on. I worked with this girl for 6 months or so, but she moved to another city with this tiny tim boyfriend of hers..they split in like 2 weeks and she went back home. Been a year since I talked to her, but I saw her and I picked up some IOI from her and pondering pursuing her for something more than 1 night of fun. She is an absolute 10, 5'10" blonde hair, big green eyes, skinny with big tits and a NICEEEE ass. Before now she intimidated the HELL out of me and I'm not the only one. People would slip up talking to her all the time or guys would try and hit on her and come off not making any sense. Wow

But theres a series of redflags that some people that go to church with her told me.

She turned into a major loner, they said her parents said that she hasn't had anyone to see her at their home in months. She goes to work and school and comes home and works on stuff at their ranch that she doesn't have to.

She is depressed a lot and constantly prays with the pastor in invitation.

She lives at home and is almost 24 (well on the property, her parents guest house, they are seriously seriously loaded) she goes to school but only takes 1 or 2 classes per semester and isnt' concerned about her grades really.

I don't know, she was always one of those girls I thought was way out of league, but when I saw her she put arm on my shirt and was staring at me like every word I said was super important. She ask me if I wanted to come see her horses and I responded with some random statement like "That'd be cool sometime" None of it dawned on me till one of the guys with me pointed it out like "Damn man did you notice that?"

What do you think? Just make contact and go from there?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Incog

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Moofahsa said:
What do you think? Just make contact and go from there?
Yes.
 

KontrollerX

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Yeah make contact and see how she behaves towards ya.

Its the only way you're going to know for sure whether she's normal or deeply depressed.

Honestly from what you wrote she sounds like she's got some serious depression going on.

That can make even the hottest of chicks and normal people who seem to have it all going for them into recluses.
 

Interceptor

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Go for it. man.
Just do NOT be in 'awe" with her 'hawtness'.
Do not think you are somehow 'unworthy' of her.
Do not start to act needy , clingy, try to get her validation or acceptance, or approval.
Do not give her your Interest if she has nothing Interesting about her.
Do not tell her your 'feelings' for her or anything related to that.
Do not 'look for a relationship." Just be open to 'anything."
Donot give in to your EGO in this interaction. Like "Yeah, dude I banged this HB10, dude. I am leet!"


Ride this wave, dude.

BUT.......

.........be logical, and practical. Keep your perspective.

Keep us updated.
 

jdawgmcb

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NEVER ever EVER say that a girl is out of your league.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Bat

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There is one way to find out if she's depressed or not...get to know her.

Honestly, I don't think any of those are an indication of depression. Maybe, she's just an independent person.

Plus, you're over-analyzing. Just go make contact and have fun with her. Rest will unfold itself.
 

ZaReK

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Too much assumption, so little you really know about. People are making way too much generalisation and over-assumption that it makes her almost look like she's a retard or whatever.

Like everything in life, better to know it by yourself aka go talk to her.
 
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