"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well keep in mind, he was thinking of dumping her anyway, so it's a lot easier. but I still give sam a ton of credit
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah i also wouldn't mind hearing an update on this one.

I think this was an inspiration to a lot of guys on how to walk away from women who give you sh!t.

Here is something I found a couple of days ago which shows how women can sometimes think. I'm not saying this is definitely what happened in this situation but it might be similar.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-thought-hed-chase-me-but-im-chasing.html

Talk about backfiring on her LOL.

The games women play... This gives me some hope that there are still some real men left in the world who won't tolerate mistreatment.

PS. The comments by the women replying to that story also give me hope they are not all insane manipulative b!tches.
 
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