"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got a 2ND date-----> How to build romantic connection PT3

Ryan

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Hey guys,

So this is part III, this was the first date (required reading


So recently I asked her on whatsapp, how she felt when we were holding hands, and her response is " Okay, I was surprised, I recently got out a long relationship and I want to take it slow, and get to know you first".

To reiterate, she is a virgin, who only had one bf in her life, she is 22.

Then I replied, " How much slower can we go?"

Fast forward today when I asked her out to go to Stanley Park, she said yeah meet me at mcdonalds (wont let me pick her up from her house). I said five and she was like she can take a day off to chill with me.

Ok so now we need to figure out how to build a romantic connection?

  • I am going to learn one of the romantic speed seduction patterns (yes I have used them before and they are sort of effective)
  • What you guys recommend I do?


I already bought her skittles on the first date, she knows I like choc chip cookies so that will be a test to see if she will bring me some, I dont think I will buy a rose or gift.

We need to build a connection here.....

Should I say "my leg hurts - dont feel like walking" and just bring her to my place to stream something on my laptop? My objective is to get her used to kissing me ("I dont kiss on the first date")..

Its nectaring season. I will post a field report after the date I promise.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hockeyfreak79

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why the fvck are you asking her about holding hands. Wtf? Stop that shvt.

Dude you don't need step by step instructions Jesus H. She wants to take the day off to chill with you? Don't spend the whole day with her!
2-3hr tops.

HAVE FUN, LAUGH, FLIRT, TEASE

RE-FVCKING-LAX

Oh & I'll call bull**** on her being a virgin! If she's any good looking she's atleast had the tip.
 
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