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got a 200$ fine thanks to a stupid whor-e

pyros

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So I met this ***** some weeks ago. She's a milf because she's 41 and Im 28. She is very thin, dresses very femenine, nice face.
Well, thing is, we had 'five' dates until I banged her but the damn problem comes here:

The day I banged her, I went to her neighbourhood to have dinner, have some drinks and go to her place. So I picked her up and I drove to a small restaurant. When we came back I was trying to park the car when she told me:
her: "listen, you can park overthere next o my apartment. Its forbidden but the police never fines anyone so you can leave the car there for a while."

Well, the funy thing is that after we had two drinks (2.5 hours later) my car was not there anymore and now I have a 200$ fine to pay!! damn woman!
I did not say much at that moment cause I wanted to f-uck her, so we went to her place, we banged, and I had to pay a damn cab to return to my place. (she did not even offer to pay for my taxi...)

Now, 5 days later and I have not heard a word from her offering to pay half the fine or something, because it is her responsability! I parked there cause she said it was ok; besides, there were other parking spaces, but she said that one was closer.
If it was the other way around, I would feel kind of guilty that she had to pay a 200$ fine and a cab just because I said to her to park somewhere in my neighbourhood.

Today I decided to tell her that Im not happy with this, and she just said that its not her responsability, blah blah. And that it would be a pity if I kept angry.

What do you think? Im thinking that Im gonna send her to hell, but It would be nice to keep banging her from time to time...
 

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Really dude? You think its her responsibility that you got a ticket? Who exactly is the stupid one in this situation. Check yourself. She owes you nothing for the outcomes of your actions. Cities use tickets as a source of revenue; they are always looking out to make that money off fines. Pay it and move on. Next time something like this happens, use your head.
 

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Vice said:
Really dude? You think its her responsibility that you got a ticket? Who exactly is the stupid one in this situation. Check yourself. She owes you nothing for the outcomes of your actions. Cities use tickets as a source of revenue; they are always looking out to make that money off fines. Pay it and move on. Next time something like this happens, use your head.
Yup. This one's totally on you for just saying "oh okay" when she told you to park there. In fact, she even told you it's illegal to park there. Even if she sat there watching that spot every minute of every day and could confirm nobody in the history of man has ever gotten a ticket there ever, you are still assuming the risk.

Just because you decided her word was good enough for you, doesn't mean what you were doing was legal and it certainly doesn't make it her responsibility.

Besides, you got the guilt bang.
 

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gonna stay with vice here, you trusted her, you faulty was to trust her, just keep her around to keep banging if the sex was good, and you are lacking plates.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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just consider it a $200 bang.

then consciously spend $20 less on needless items for the next ten months (adjust according to preference) to compensate. 99% of what we buy we don't need anyway.
 

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If she had high character she would do something nice for you like pay for the cab, or buy dinner next time, etc. It was her suggestion to park and it benefited her as well. She should feel bad about it and want to do something for you. Yeah you guys banged but unless she's a ***** that's a lame excuse.

However, you should not press the issue with her. First, you won't win. Second, you can't argue integrity into someone. Third, you never know she might surprise you still. So move on.
 

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Yea, you made a poor choice. She gave you the forbidden fruit but YOU ate it because you were thinking with your d!ck. While I think it would have been good if she offered to help you pay for cab or part of the ticket...This is why as a guy you must lead. I see so many guys refuse to lead and then moan about it later. If you do really feel bad about it you can always wait for a chance to pay her back and say, "sorry, it's not my responsibility". Well, if revenge is your thing, lol.
 

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never listen to a woman when its related to driving.
 

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Nothing, and I mean NOTHING in this world pisses me off more than someone arguing with you about doing something or not because of a concern you have then completely dodging the issue when the exact reason you were concerned bites you in the ass. I would be pissed, too.

That said, you should have found a better parking spot. Don't let women or anyone else tell you how to drive. I know you were trying to play it cool and, of course, chicks always know everything when it comes to parking spots but you gotta be firm when it's your car abd you are driving.

By the way, what's up with chicks and parking? Seems like half the women I know always have some major opinion on where to park. And they get way too excited if you get a good spot. So we have to only walk 10 yards into the restaurant instead of 20...Yes that just made my day, too. Like anyone is going to die walking an extra row or two or not having to is some major convenience.
 

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lol op got pawned
 

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don't be too mad OP, just don't trust her word so much in the future

i doubt she intentionally mislead you.
 

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At the end of the day she did not put a gun to your head and made you park there. you parked there. it's on you. that's the **** that comes with being "alpha" that no one likes to talk about. the bucks tops here. you made the decision. own it.
 

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No, you got the $200 fine because of your own ignorance. Lot of women hating on here. Most of the time it turns out to be the dude's
own fault. :yes:

Here's a perfect lesson for you guys. Quit feeling guilty and worrying about other people's feelings, especially women's feelings.

This chick doesn't feel guilty or care about your feelings after you got the fine. :yes:


pyros said:
She's a milf because she's 41 and Im 28.
That's a lot of money to spend on a 41 year old MILF with a loose pvssy :crackup:

pyros said:
her: "listen, you can park overthere next o my apartment. Its forbidden but the police never fines anyone so you can leave the car there for a while."
You took her word for it? Always decide for yourself instead of listening to other people.

This is your own fault. She told you right off the bat it was illegal to do. You chose to listen to her bad advice instead of making your own correct decision. If someone told me that, I would look for another place to park. Because with my luck, I would wind up getting the fine. Cities are hungry to fine people for illegal parking That brings in revenue. Pay it and get over it. Don't park illegally anymore.

pyros said:
she just said that its not her responsibility
Why should it be? You're the one who parked the car. She didn't. You were dumb enough to listen to her. It's not her responsibility.

pyros said:
Im thinking that Im gonna send her to hell, but It would be nice to keep banging her from time to time
:crackup: Then why b!tch about it?
 

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pyros said:
So I met this ***** some weeks ago. She's a milf because she's 41 and Im 28. She is very thin, dresses very femenine, nice face.
Well, thing is, we had 'five' dates until I banged her but the damn problem comes here:

The day I banged her, I went to her neighbourhood to have dinner, have some drinks and go to her place. So I picked her up and I drove to a small restaurant. When we came back I was trying to park the car when she told me:
her: "listen, you can park overthere next o my apartment. Its forbidden but the police never fines anyone so you can leave the car there for a while."

Well, the funy thing is that after we had two drinks (2.5 hours later) my car was not there anymore and now I have a 200$ fine to pay!! damn woman!
I did not say much at that moment cause I wanted to f-uck her, so we went to her place, we banged, and I had to pay a damn cab to return to my place. (she did not even offer to pay for my taxi...)

Now, 5 days later and I have not heard a word from her offering to pay half the fine or something, because it is her responsability! I parked there cause she said it was ok; besides, there were other parking spaces, but she said that one was closer.
If it was the other way around, I would feel kind of guilty that she had to pay a 200$ fine and a cab just because I said to her to park somewhere in my neighbourhood.

Today I decided to tell her that Im not happy with this, and she just said that its not her responsability, blah blah. And that it would be a pity if I kept angry.

What do you think? Im thinking that Im gonna send her to hell, but It would be nice to keep banging her from time to time...
It really isn't her responsibility. You were just foolish to listen to a woman. Learn from your mistakes and do not commit them again.
 

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its funny because after I said to her that I did not think the same way than her about this issue, it seems she does not speak to me anymore...
 

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Nobody forced you to park the car over there, you chose to do so. You honestly have no right to be mad at anyone other than yourself.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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