"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got 2 virgin on my plate list now... Someone help me a little

BraddH

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One has never dated before, both seems like they have no experiene whatsoever even in the "relaxing in the bed theme" They just lie there and do whatever I lead to.

I feel kind of bad taking their virginity just like that. Kiss closed both on first and never ****ed them. On the second date propably. It feels kind of empty fvcking them tough. I believe they will just lie there. And as a human being, I do have compassion for them, because they will propably borh expect a relationship with me if not after the make out session, then after sex. It will propably hurt them to tears when they realise im a "player" that "played" them or "spun" them.

Another thing I have noticed with this spinning thing is that, I have come to a point where it is too easy and sometimes I do hope that it would be a little more back in the days when I were more AFC. I did have alot more happiness and joy in those days. Someone see themselves in this post?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I talk to chicks sometimes and I know they're a virgin just based of their demeanor. If they want to lose it to you then they'll want to lose it to you. But to avoid attachment--be honest. Let them know you aren't looking for anything long term, you just want to have some fun. If she is still down for it after you tell her that, then it's all good.

and if its getting easy, then that's good. But I could understand where you begin to get a little bored of just being able to pick up a girl at the drop of a hat. Push it then. Start going for the 7-9's.
 

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RiceandChicken said:
I talk to chicks sometimes and I know they're a virgin just based of their demeanor. If they want to lose it to you then they'll want to lose it to you. But to avoid attachment--be honest. Let them know you aren't looking for anything long term, you just want to have some fun. If she is still down for it after you tell her that, then it's all good.

and if its getting easy, then that's good. But I could understand where you begin to get a little bored of just being able to pick up a girl at the drop of a hat. Push it then. Start going for the 7-9's.
Yes. One told me that she is a virgin, the another one I know based of their demeanor. As far as attachment is concerned, I think I might let myself loose and just "trust" one of these girls for relationship. We always say that virgins are the best for relationship, and I quite agree.

As far as 7-9s are concerned, they are all I am spinning now. Lower than that I simply have no interest in. They cannot rise any feelings in me, hence they cannot rise my ****. And another thing I have realised is, the "grade" you see in the girl sometimes completely depends on you. For example, if you follow the mass, then a model is a 9 right? I never see anybody as a 10, so 9 is the limit. But if you think more closely, do models have good shapes? Good boobs and ass?. They look like a skeleton to be precise. Then again, someone sweet inside can look like a 9 easily if they have a fine, average body and face, hair. Butu then again, maybe that is because I am looking for something else than the ordinary, routine "spinning". Yes your motive depends alot on how you grade the girl. We are taught from our very childhood that "models" are the mo-dels. Models means that they are the icon and that all the girls have to look like that, so we get the idea that they are the best possible. That is absolutely rubbish and the societys condition to keep us at our stupidity.
 

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Honestly, it's best not to take their virginities if you dont want a relationship. It just ruins the girl. Destroys them. let them go if they are not what you want.

It's a part of being a DJ. Honesty, integrity...etc. If you like them and they like you back, sure go for it.
 

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alpha_as_h311 said:
Honestly, it's best not to take their virginities if you dont want a relationship. It just ruins the girl. Destroys them. let them go if they are not what you want.

It's a part of being a DJ. Honesty, integrity...etc. If you like them and they like you back, sure go for it.
Dunno, man. Not all girls are like this. Some just want to lose it to lose it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agree with just letting them know you're not interested in being in anything long term at the moment. She may still want to **** or she may decide to be a good girl.

These won't be the last two girls you ever have in your bed, so whether or not you **** them won't really matter to you. Losing their virginity to someone who won't return a text message the next day may do some damage to them emotionally.
 

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