"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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got 2 numbers, now what?

drcreeboy

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chick 1- outgoing, gave me her number. im semi-interested in her.
chick 2- quiet, asked for her number. im interested, shes cuter.

got hugs and smiles from both chicks at a party last friday. dont no if that means anything

i was thinking id text them in school or something. tommorows the last day for them, im graduated. should i try to set something up, or just send some kind of c/f text?

anybody know any good texts to start off with?

plus how do you sign it? do u just end with ur name? or say "hey its drcreeboy"?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DismantleRepair

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Start off by bringing up something you've mentioned in earlier conversation. Don't just ask her about it, but frame it in a funny way. For example, I found out a girl liked playing The Sims, so the next time I texted her I started with "Hey, I hope your Sims haven't starved to death from neglect :p". This will get some rapport going.

Sign it however you like, as long as your name is in the first text, so you don't get the old "who is this?" reply.
 

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drcreeboy said:
chick 1- outgoing, gave me her number. im semi-interested in her.
chick 2- quiet, asked for her number. im interested, shes cuter.
Ask them out...probably you will like the first chick even more. Ask them out as soon as possible..if they don't want to come..just go to the next..In any case you will progress faster.

got hugs and smiles from both chicks at a party last friday. dont no if that means anything
Go and find out if this means anything...try more stuff.


i was thinking id text them in school or something. tommorows the last day for them, im graduated. should i try to set something up, or just send some kind of c/f text?
Why do you need to be c/f when you text them? This is not the most important thing..ask them out and see how

anybody know any good texts to start off with?
plus how do you sign it? do u just end with ur name? or say "hey its drcreeboy"?
You should beep her when you take the number. There are not good texts and bad text if you are texting to one girl at the time. You know what to text based on her personality and how you met her and also based on what you want to do next with her.
Why do you worry about them if for example about the first chick you are not even interested...(probably you put the first chick so you can say that you got two numbers instead one:p )
 
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