Gorillas mating ritual (as life itself...)

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

NoSpoon

New Member

Feb 20, 2016

Hi, I'm new around here. Well, in fact I've been reading this forum a lot in the last couple of months, but I just joined today, so hi guys!

Well, the reason I joined is because I really wanted to share this video with you. It is amazing how gorilla's game resembles our own. The dominance displays of the alpha male, his aparent indifference towards the new female and the complex games that the female plays in order to gain his attention are pretty similar to human behaviour.

I think is a great video to reconnect with our ancestral male insctincts. Enjoy!

Link:

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.