Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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GoodLookingLoser:The best way to beat the past.

TarantulaHawk

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Saw this quote from GLL (not sure if it's his personally or where he got it from but it's a great quote on beating your past.)

"The best way to beat the past, is to build the present and a future that you wouldn't trade for anything."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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People do speak highly of him. Not sure how good of a philosopher he is though.
 

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He loses all credibility when you look at his forum full of pen1s pump promotions.
 

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LMFAO said:
He loses all credibility when you look at his forum full of pen1s pump promotions.
His basic advice is solid in regards to working on yourself and getting chicks. The pen1s pump stuff can be ignored.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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