"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GoodGirls Finsih Last.. B!tches Still First

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i have been reading that post, *****es vs. good girls and all I can say is that you guys are doing the same things that girls are doing, b.s-ing yourselves.. to think you want a "good girl" over a "bad girl"

bad girls- for the most part are more attractive- they may not be beautiful like good girls but there sexy, some one you would like to have sex with and are highly acractied to, bad girls are generally more experienced, guys prefer experienced girls because they don’t chicken out and they know what there doing... bad girls constantly fight with you and never given in easy making conversation and the relationship intresting.. guys like a little drama too,... after a while even sex gets boring (hard 2 believe) and after a while you get tired of sex and want something more (good girl)


nice girl- they generally hide there sexuality, the reason they do this is so there friends do think of them as a s!ut, they hide there masculinity, so they don’t come off as being a B!itch, thus on the out side they "appear" more famine. good girls may be beautiful however they usually don’t dress or act sexy, thus were not really acractied to them as much, some are sincearly just good and famine but most of them are just hiding it and have a real split personality b!tch (bad) s!lut = (good) thin under them... guys are actratied to the fact that maybe i can turn this good girl into a hard core S!lut, that way i have a good girl in public yet a bad girl a home". some times this works some times it doesn’t... cus some times what u see is what you get...

good girl- the rarest type of women of them all. most of us are searching for a girl who is not passive, or indifferent, who has an opinion a girl who is not aragont.. a.k.a being a B!tch. a girl who is not stubborn and who can compromise if necessary.. also stubborn.. a.ka. being a b!itch. its no secret but all guys would like to have there own little s!ut... who doesn’t? be honest with yourself do u realy want a "nice girl" in bed? hell no, u want hardcore fun! however... guys only want girls to be sluty with there partner not Sexually Flirty with other guys.. cus that just makes them untrust worthy..
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: B*itches finish first.. good girls Last..

bad girls- for the most part are more attractive- they may not be beautiful like good girls but there sexy, some one you would like to have sex with
hmmm, I find most "Bad Girls" to be really thick in the head or immature, sure they have sex appeal and are great when you get the opportunity to go further. But for me it would end there, the main reason why bad girls turn me off is because they think they have control over men and the sad part is alot of them actually do.

bad girls constantly fight with you and never given in easy making conversation and the relationship intresting
I hope you don't mean an (LTR), sounds as about as fun as sitting on a cactus. An if you are talking about an (LTR) go get a dog leash and collar.
 

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I can say with complete honesty that I go for "good girls" over b!tches because every single one of my girlfriends has been a good girl. I might date a b!tch for a while and use her for some ass, but that's it. I don't go out with them. Period.
 

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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
you guys are doing the same things that girls are doing, b.s-ing yourselves.. to think you want a "good girl" over a "bad girl"
Don't go around dictating what other guys like in women based on your values. We're not doing the same things that girls are doing, because here, we have experience and knowledge, and we have a good idea of what we want. Don't bash guys just because they're looking for something different in a girl than you are.
 

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I want a very sexy girl who will have sex upon my command...

That's ...about it.

;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i prefer bad girls theyre so much more fun to talk to and do stuff with them....the only drawback is when we break up, then expect a lot of trashtalking aloud and front of whole classes...
 

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Way too complicated.

There's mainstream...

There's quality...

And then there's near perfection.... the ones I date.
 

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"i have been reading that post, *****es vs. good girls and all I can say is that you guys are doing the same things that girls are doing, b.s-ing yourselves.. to think you want a "good girl" over a "bad girl""

Give me a break. That's almost as tired as saying "We expect girls to shave their bodies, so we should shave ours too." In case you haven't forgotten, men and women ARE DIFFERENT. Just because girls want masculine guys doesn't mean we want masculine women.

"bad girls- for the most part are more attractive- they may not be beautiful like good girls but there sexy, some one you would like to have sex with and are highly acractied to, bad girls are generally more experienced, guys prefer experienced girls because they don’t chicken out and they know what there doing... bad girls constantly fight with you and never given in easy making conversation and the relationship intresting.. guys like a little drama too,... after a while even sex gets boring (hard 2 believe) and after a while you get tired of sex and want something more (good girl)"

Hmm, let's see... she's a slut, she's loud, she's not submissive, she's only good for sex... hey, wait, isn't that just the OPPOSITE of what we want?

"nice girl- they generally hide there sexuality, the reason they do this is so there friends do think of them as a s!ut, they hide there masculinity, so they don’t come off as being a B!itch, thus on the out side they "appear" more famine. good girls may be beautiful however they usually don’t dress or act sexy, thus were not really acractied to them as much, some are sincearly just good and famine but most of them are just hiding it and have a real split personality b!tch (bad) s!lut = (good) thin under them... guys are actratied to the fact that maybe i can turn this good girl into a hard core S!lut, that way i have a good girl in public yet a bad girl a home". some times this works some times it doesn’t... cus some times what u see is what you get..."

Feminine, modest... sounds good to me.

"good girl- the rarest type of women of them all. most of us are searching for a girl who is not passive, or indifferent, who has an opinion a girl who is not aragont.. a.k.a being a B!tch. a girl who is not stubborn and who can compromise if necessary.. also stubborn.. a.ka. being a b!itch. its no secret but all guys would like to have there own little s!ut... who doesn’t? be honest with yourself do u realy want a "nice girl" in bed? hell no, u want hardcore fun! however... guys only want girls to be sluty with there partner not Sexually Flirty with other guys.. cus that just makes them untrust worthy.."

Basically a nice girl who isn't afraid of her sexuality, but will only do it with one guy, and not many? Umm, I thought that one was obvious.
 

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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
i have been reading that post, *****es vs. good girls and all I can say is that you guys are doing the same things that girls are doing, b.s-ing yourselves.. to think you want a "good girl" over a "bad girl"

after a while even sex gets boring (hard 2 believe) and after a while you get tired of sex and want something more (good girl)

Don't these two statements contradict each other a bit?

Anyways, I'm not sure what your point with this topic was, but of course a good girl is going to be better in the long run than an ungrateful b!tch who is only good for sex. Those are the girls you have a ONS with, not a LTR.
 

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this sounds like the "jerk vs. Nice Guys" battle.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i have been reading that post, *****es vs. good girls and all I can say is that you guys are doing the same things that girls are doing, b.s-ing yourselves.. to think you want a "good girl" over a "bad girl"
I want a good girl that is easy to hande, but I'm gonna make her real SLUT in bed!

bad girls constantly fight with you and never given in easy making conversation and the relationship intresting
Do you mean unneeded b!tching? Who wants that?

after a while even sex gets boring (hard 2 believe) and after a while you get tired of sex and want something more (good girl)
Sex gets boring only if you are boring! you want something more and it's automatically a "good girl"? Why not another bytch?

nice girl- they generally hide there sexuality, the reason they do this is so there friends do think of them as a s!ut, they hide there masculinity, so they don’t come off as being a B!itch, thus on the out side they "appear" more famine.
Nice girls don't advertice their sexuality that much. B!tching is NOT masculinity. It's annoying feminine way to deal with things. Think about combination of manipulating little girls and angry badass pússycats.

guys are actratied to the fact that maybe i can turn this good girl into a hard core S!lut, that way i have a good girl in public yet a bad girl a home
You can do this. To every girl. I'm speaking about unleashing her sexuality. It depends on a guy if a chick opens or not.

be honest with yourself do u realy want a "nice girl" in bed? hell no, u want hardcore fun!
It's really rare that ANY woman like to be banged hardcore like in porn. Sometimes maybe, but mostly every woman want to be taken gently and soft. Porn gives you really bad idea of bad girls and sex.
 

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Who are you to say sex gets boring? or are you that experienced at 14?
 
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I've reassessed my p*ssy supply for the summer and I've told off 3 girls who I was supposed to chill with, because there just dull and well.....dull. They're good looking, but it seems like I'm talking with a f*cking robot or my d*ck. here's a convo with a stupid chick...

ME:so whats goin on?
Her:nothing, what about you?
ME: what are your hobbies?
Her:anything and everything
Me: wtf? be more specific
Her: I dunno...
Me:what continent is asia on?
Her: China
Me: You stupid f*ck, don't talk to me ever again
Her: why?

JESUS F*CKING CHRIST WHAT STUPID C*NT!!!!!

I want a girl that will give me a reason to use her for a punching bag.
 

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If ANY part of a relationship gets boring, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT TO MAKE IT INTERESTING! That doesn't mean to "jump to a good girl" because you'll only get bored...With a good girl. Variety is key.
 

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well if anything why dont you just try to bang them....thats the only thing those kind of girls are good for anyways.....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by undesputable
well if anything why dont you just try to bang them....thats the only thing those kind of girls are good for anyways.....
You mean bithces???

I agree.
That's what they want usually too. So let's give it to them! :p
 
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