"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Goodbye thread

sylvester the cat

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Oh no! Not another stupid goodbye thread. If you don't want to be here just stop logging in. This is the internet. It's not a case of leaving.

No. I actually wanted to say goodbye. This site was very useful to me back in 2012-13. Very useful. I was a proper beta when I came here. The girls I'd hooked up with in my life wasn't due to me being an alpha. It was usually girls who approached me. Not all were high quality naturally. But no whales. Most were good quality to be fair. A few very bad ones.

Anyway. I've moved on and discovered I was probably. No not probably, I was emotionally abused as a kid. Physically I was treated well, but emotionally I was neglected by my father and invalidated by my mother. Basically my soul was murdered. You can get life for bodily murder but there's no law against murder of teh soul. So I am working on these issues now which I think will be more useful in terms of approaching women also.

So i just wanted to say a huge thank you to this site and the people on it. I have fond memories of being here and you provide a great service.

Love you.

Over and out.

Sylvester the Cat.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HyenaPrince

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Oh no! Not another stupid goodbye thread. If you don't want to be here just stop logging in. This is the internet. It's not a case of leaving.

No. I actually wanted to say goodbye. This site was very useful to me back in 2012-13. Very useful. I was a proper beta when I came here. The girls I'd hooked up with in my life wasn't due to me being an alpha. It was usually girls who approached me. Not all were high quality naturally. But no whales. Most were good quality to be fair. A few very bad ones.

Anyway. I've moved on and discovered I was probably. No not probably, I was emotionally abused as a kid. Physically I was treated well, but emotionally I was neglected by my father and invalidated by my mother. Basically my soul was murdered. You can get life for bodily murder but there's no law against murder of teh soul. So I am working on these issues now which I think will be more useful in terms of approaching women also.

So i just wanted to say a huge thank you to this site and the people on it. I have fond memories of being here and you provide a great service.

Love you.

Over and out.

Sylvester the Cat.
Although I've never had any conversations with you, I wish you all the best. Best of luck on your self-improvement journey. You've recognized the problem and decided to do something about it. That's more than 50% of the effort. The rest will fall into place.

The more you work on yourself and the braver you become, the harder your challenges get. But these challenges will be more rewarding every time you succeed.

Enjoy life and stay healthy, brother.
 
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