"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Goodbye Sosuave..and THANKS A TON!

frivolousz21

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I come here now and realize that my purpose here is delfated....I no longer seek the advice of this place..im sure I could use more and more..but I have found women no longer hold any difficulty in my life.


and I am going to focus on other things such as my career, family and goals.

and still get with many, many women..until I meet the right one for me.

Id like to say thanks...to everyone who helped..and everyone who wrote articles that changed me..that I cant thank because they are no longer here.

I hope everyone finds themselves along there own journey...it took me 9 months to fully realize how suave I am!

and thanks again!


bye!


sincerely, Chris(the biggest supporter of the not so tall guys)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hellboy

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Ah the notalgia...

I did the same thing a couple years back. Here's the thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=38583
I've grown up a lot since then :) I'm back on the site now to prolong a monogamous relationship. Amazing what a couple of years can do.

All I can say is GOOD LUCK DUDE! You'll be glad you did it. :up:

And you'll be back ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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thanks super..I will check in here and there....I just have to get this women **** out of my head....I have someone right now im pretty steady with..I know my game is bulletproof..and now I want to make more money :)!

take care guys
 

thefonz

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Well I"M going to miss the guy.....he's one of the first people I started talking to when I got here in October and friv....you've been completely positive the whole time.....to tell you the truth, I never really noticed you had any real problems with women. I'm suprised you stayed.

Good luck banging girls short, tall, hot, and ugly if thats your game
 
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