Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No reason the Playher can't improve his posting game and be a little more articulate and leave out the slurs. You should never stop improving right?Peaks&Valleys said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree.Malice said:
Peaks&Valleys said:
Yeah, I'm hoping he can see past his ego. At the end of the day no one is perfect, we all have our faults to work on - he just needs to acknowledge this. His insults towards me in my early days did me good. I've been called a "beta fag" & " a white knight" :crackup: . But honestly, I thank him for it as he was right - I WAS. I don't know if I'd even class them as insults though, I'd say it's more just saying "how it is" . I'd class someone calling me a "fvcking cvnt" as an insult - not a "white knight" or "beta fag". You gotta love internet terminology lol....Malice said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
zekko said:
It's not that I wanted it - it's more that I needed it at the time. Like I say - I use to hate the guy, I literally couldn't stand the site of his user name.... until it all started to make sense :yes: . I think it's safe to say the older and more experienced DJ'S will appreciate him less than us newer up-and-coming DJ'S. The older/more experienced DJ'S already have their own outlook, where as us newer lot needed unplugging (as fast as possible). And that was the thing about his approach - it unplugged you fast and got you thinking...zekko said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
