"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good ****

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Good **** is a movie about persistance and generating real love in a human being.

Everything the guy in the movie does goes against all that the so called attraction experts advocate.

He's needy, clingy, beta, all that AFC stands for, yet his persistance and loving kindness breaks down her wall.

Also the female character depicts many females in our pornographic hook up culture and how mentally traumatizing it is mentally to a female and gives a clue as to why women can be so cold hearted to a male suitor.

The movie was meant to be a comedy, and I'm posting it because I know there's alot of males on here that have a similar personality as the male character, yet because of this forum they try to pretend to be an alpha male which works against them because it's not natural, and makes them fake.

Maybe using the characters game as a model will compliment their AFC behavior and in the end win the woman's heart over.

Here's the link
http://www.hulu.com/watch/161865/good-****
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Examples from the media aren't always the best. All those comedies and other films we see advocate AFC behaviour. They peddle the lie that being AFC gets the girl in the end. It might work in the film, but in real life.... hell no.

For those who watch Scrubs...think about the main character, JD. He is one of the biggest examples of an AFC I have ever seen on TV. Overall I like Scrubs because it's funny, but because of his AFC ways, I'm starting to dislike the show.

Edit: Just seen the trailer for Good D!ck. Like I expected, more faggoty AFC crap. Did you hear the way the main character asks the girl out? *In whiny voice* "ummm....do you wanna get a coffee?", "I feel so connected to you"... or something along those lines.

It's funny because it's a complete reversal of normal gender behaviour. Usually the woman is the emotionally needy one and the guy just wants sex. In this film, it's the complete opposite. Which is hilarious. But the film becomes $hit when it tries to put out some 'deep, profound' message that will leave hipsters, emos and pretentious faggots creaming their pants and typing furiously on their livejournals.

I don't know about other people here, but I'm giving this film a miss. It looks like utter crap. Aspiring Don Juans and Don Juans on sosuave will watch the trailer and laugh at how pathetic this film is.
 

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well that's why you have to watch the whole feature film. Clips and sound bites won't do it justice because, it doesn't convey his persistence and game.

I just commented on another thread, I believe titled "my vision" were the OP talks about keeping your emotional composure when a female tests you with ***** attitude, and that's exactly what the male character does.

There's a scene were she insults him and cuts him down, and he doesn't get negative but holds his own by controlling his emotions telling her no matter what she says it won't hurt him and he keeps pursing confident that she'll sooner or later give in, which is pretty alpha behavior since he comes off seemingly high self esteem even though everything else shouts AFC.

Finally when her defenses are about to collapse she makes a final rejection and he actually goes the no contact route, and she's thinking of all the times he was there for her and goes looking for him.

It's a movie for sure, but I've experienced real life situations similar to this story line.

Give it a watch at the very least you'll get entertained and it's free.
 

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This a movie, not real life. In movies, the nice guy prevails over the jock, and the pretty girl who has been abused by her jerk ex's comes falls in love with the nice guy. This is a pretty standard Hollywood formula. Nice guys finish last, that's all I have to say.
 

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MrJibbles said:
This a movie, not real life. In movies, the nice guy prevails over the jock, and the pretty girl who has been abused by her jerk ex's comes falls in love with the nice guy. This is a pretty standard Hollywood formula. Nice guys finish last, that's all I have to say.
This.

Movies does not equal real life. People who get their beliefs and influences from movies will epically fail in real life. That emotional gushing of feeling and that overly romantic gesture might get the girl in a generic chick flick...but pull that move in real life... you'll get laughed at/rejected/have a restraining order put on you after she calls the cops.

Jacob, you may be right about some of the moves this guy pulls, and we may be better at spotting these things because we are sosuave members...but the overall tone of this film is MEGA AFC. The main message of this film is a MEGA AFC one, about love and bull$hit like that. To the general public who are unaware of Don Juan principles, the message that this film conveys is utter crap.

The media rarely throws out good examples but one I would go by is a character called Hank Moody (played by David Duchovny) in a show called Californication. The title has fornication in it FFS. Hank Moody's way of being is the complete opposite of an AFC. Anyone who watches Californication will agree with me here, one episode will have way better examples than this "Good D!ck" film.

Edit: Another good example is Charlie Harper (played by Charlie Sheen) in Two and a Half Men. He gets the girls, knows how to handle them and is a complete contrast to his AFC brother Alan (played by Jon Cryer).

BUT even Californication + Two and a Half Men should not be your only source of DJ-esque learning. Remember that the media is flawed. All forms of it will peddle lies and bull$hit.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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