"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good ways to get girls back to your room? good props to have in your room?

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What are some good ways to get girls back to your room? good props to have in your room for good convo or whatever else?, etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Incog

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Have "conversation material" items and decorations. Your room should look decent but not overdone.

Example, I have mainly a sports theme. Sports bean bag chair, one of those little basketball hoops you hang on the door, etc. I have a guitar in the corner.

Items with conversation value (for example, the guitar) will cause this:

"You play guitar?" with an optional "Play me something!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WaterTiger

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As to getting her back to your place, you are on you're own. But I'll tell you what she expects after she gets there.

1~Reasonably neat. Your place doesn't have to look like a museum, but slide the porn magazines under the sofa. Kick your dirty underwear under the bed and spritz some air freshener around. Wipe down the furniture so it's not dusty, shove the dirty dishes in the oven. Or...you could actually clean up a little. Not all guys are slobs, some are neat freaks. (HINT: Girls like neat freaks!)
2~Clean sheets! Oh my GOD!!! I cannot tell you what a turn off it is to go into a guys room, he peels back the covers to show sheets covered in pizza crusts, cookie crumbs, dried fluids, hair and unidentifiable stains. This girl spent 2 hours getting ready to go out. The peach blossom shower gel, the vanilla-apricot body scrub, jasmine body lotion, plus the carefully applied make-up and you want her to get naked and lay on...THAT???
3~Candles! Instant sexy romance. They don't have to be scented, just lit! (Usually blue or brownish candles have more "manly" scents like Ocean or Sandalwood)
4~Have a good supply of contraceptives. Condoms (WITH SPERMACIDE, without spermacide and also latex free condoms.), foam, creams, and whatever you thinks is needed. DO NOT, I REPEAT! DO NOT USE CONDOMS SHE PROVIDES. This could lead to Daddyhood via pin holes.
 

Ace of Flames

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My point was, your question is asking about the whole purpose of the site. "How to get girls back to your room" is kind of the big idea here. You could find info related to your question anywhere on the site, so I gave you the site...
 

ValleyDJing

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Ace of Flames said:
My point was, your question is asking about the whole purpose of the site. "How to get girls back to your room" is kind of the big idea here. You could find info related to your question anywhere on the site, so I gave you the site...
I totally agree. Great minds think alike huh? Anyways its hilarious how some people still took the time to give information anyway.
 

Doggystyle

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Xchange said:
What are some good ways to get girls back to your room? good props to have in your room for good convo or whatever else?, etc.

Good ways to get a girl back to your room....ummmm.....ask!!

Good props for conversation, ha ha, are you kidding me! why would you want to get a girl back to your room to chat about "props" ? Her friends are for chatting, you are for ****ing
 

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condoms, lube, whips, chickens, whatever other freaky stuff you're into. Yea an instrument would be great or have some music ready.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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