"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good ways to get girls back to your room? good props to have in your room?

Xchange

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What are some good ways to get girls back to your room? good props to have in your room for good convo or whatever else?, etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Incog

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Have "conversation material" items and decorations. Your room should look decent but not overdone.

Example, I have mainly a sports theme. Sports bean bag chair, one of those little basketball hoops you hang on the door, etc. I have a guitar in the corner.

Items with conversation value (for example, the guitar) will cause this:

"You play guitar?" with an optional "Play me something!"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WaterTiger

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As to getting her back to your place, you are on you're own. But I'll tell you what she expects after she gets there.

1~Reasonably neat. Your place doesn't have to look like a museum, but slide the porn magazines under the sofa. Kick your dirty underwear under the bed and spritz some air freshener around. Wipe down the furniture so it's not dusty, shove the dirty dishes in the oven. Or...you could actually clean up a little. Not all guys are slobs, some are neat freaks. (HINT: Girls like neat freaks!)
2~Clean sheets! Oh my GOD!!! I cannot tell you what a turn off it is to go into a guys room, he peels back the covers to show sheets covered in pizza crusts, cookie crumbs, dried fluids, hair and unidentifiable stains. This girl spent 2 hours getting ready to go out. The peach blossom shower gel, the vanilla-apricot body scrub, jasmine body lotion, plus the carefully applied make-up and you want her to get naked and lay on...THAT???
3~Candles! Instant sexy romance. They don't have to be scented, just lit! (Usually blue or brownish candles have more "manly" scents like Ocean or Sandalwood)
4~Have a good supply of contraceptives. Condoms (WITH SPERMACIDE, without spermacide and also latex free condoms.), foam, creams, and whatever you thinks is needed. DO NOT, I REPEAT! DO NOT USE CONDOMS SHE PROVIDES. This could lead to Daddyhood via pin holes.
 

Ace of Flames

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My point was, your question is asking about the whole purpose of the site. "How to get girls back to your room" is kind of the big idea here. You could find info related to your question anywhere on the site, so I gave you the site...
 

ValleyDJing

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Ace of Flames said:
My point was, your question is asking about the whole purpose of the site. "How to get girls back to your room" is kind of the big idea here. You could find info related to your question anywhere on the site, so I gave you the site...
I totally agree. Great minds think alike huh? Anyways its hilarious how some people still took the time to give information anyway.
 

Doggystyle

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Xchange said:
What are some good ways to get girls back to your room? good props to have in your room for good convo or whatever else?, etc.

Good ways to get a girl back to your room....ummmm.....ask!!

Good props for conversation, ha ha, are you kidding me! why would you want to get a girl back to your room to chat about "props" ? Her friends are for chatting, you are for ****ing
 

BMX

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condoms, lube, whips, chickens, whatever other freaky stuff you're into. Yea an instrument would be great or have some music ready.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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