good ways to answer ltr **** tests?

[hendu89]

Now i don't know for sure of i am constantly being sh tested or if my gf is just genuinely _pset because i wont be with her till a later time.

Example of text convo

Her" when will you be home?
Me "couple of hours i have two games instead of one"
Her ugh but you said you would be home at xx
me i didnt know i had two babe.
her what the hell im not happy with you. We were supposed to do (insert anything, usually somthing small like get icecream or somthing)

This isnt the best example, but i get **** from her all the time when i get held up on stuff like this.

As the convo goes on she is in thagt bleh mood not loling at my witty comments or anything she kinda just tries to give me the vibe that she is pissed and it sometimes continues through the night.

What i am wondering is is there better ways to answer these questions?
Are these the **** tests i fear to fail?

Thanks ahead of time

 

[Purefilth]

I have had the same sh!t from several different women, normally i choose an answer to wind them up more because
A) it amuses me,
B)Normally any answer i give will not keep them happy anyway.

So i dont think im the best one to answer for you.

 

[Scars]

The same you would as a short time or first time sh!t test, don't take her seriously and make a joke of it. I know it's difficult sometimes because you've been with your girl awhile and your patience for her has probably decreased sense you've met, just don't show it. She's just looking for a negative reaction out of you, don't give it to her. What is your age exactly? You sound young like me, and your girl probably is too. Our relationships generally have a half-life after so long, and the girl just becomes a b!tch. If you want to keep her, be the same guy you were when she met you. She must've liked something if she got with you right? If not, then just next her. Sometimes a b!tchy girlfriend just gets tiring, and it's time to move to some fresh-meat and go through all the lovey-dovey and learning about each other stages all over again with somebody new.

But yeah.. in a nutshell. Don't show reaction, if any, make it into a joke and try not to take anything too serious, unless it's blatant disrespect. In your example, the gf was just being a c^nt, not disrespectful. Don't confuse the two!

Good luck my man.

 

[hendu89]

I have been working on getting back to a don juan status. I know that right before i met her i was dam good at gaming girls and that is how i got this one. One of the traps i think a lot of us have fallen into is the oneitis. I have made a few mistakes and spent more time with her than what a pua would suggest. Don't get me wrong she is an awesome girl so i loved spending time with her.

Yea Scars we are young. I am 22 she is 19 and we are still both in school.

Thanks for your input, You couldn't have been more right about the patience thing, i have found myself getting more serious with these types of things rather than laughing them off like I used to.

That is why i have started reading up again, I think it is important to find a way around these types of convos instead of diving right in with straight answers.

I am curious when you said "she is looking for a negative reaction" is she doing that out of *****iness or is this her 'natural game' **** tests?

Basically WHY would she look for a negative reaction???

Forgot to mention we have been together for over a year now.

 

[Scars]

I have been working on getting back to a don juan status. I know that right before i met her i was dam good at gaming girls and that is how i got this one. One of the traps i think a lot of us have fallen into is the oneitis. I have made a few mistakes and spent more time with her than what a pua would suggest. Don't get me wrong she is an awesome girl so i loved spending time with her.

Yea Scars we are young. I am 22 she is 19 and we are still both in school.

Thanks for your input, You couldn't have been more right about the patience thing, i have found myself getting more serious with these types of things rather than laughing them off like I used to.

That is why i have started reading up again, I think it is important to find a way around these types of convos instead of diving right in with straight answers.

I am curious when you said "she is looking for a negative reaction" is she doing that out of *****iness or is this her 'natural game' **** tests?

Basically WHY would she look for a negative reaction???

Forgot to mention we have been together for over a year now.

Woman are always throwing out sh!t tests, you could be married for 25+ years and still being tested, it never ends. She wants to know if the man she's with is "qualified" to be with her. When she acts b!tchy she's testing you to see your reaction and how you deal with her crap. A lot of woman don't even realize they do it, it's just something they do subconsciencely. But basically showing any anger, jealousy or any "negative" emotion means you've failed. They key here is reaction, she's trying to get a reaction from you.. don't give it to her.

-Scars