"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good way to get yourself out in the field.

Skweints

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I don't know if this has been brought up before, but after talking to one of my good buddies and listening to his stories, he basically taught me an -awesome- way to get out there and meet women. It's a simple method, but gets amazing results, according to him.

Basically, go out with at least one of your good buds (three or four tends to be more fun) to anywhere there is gonna be hot chicks. One person starts off by telling someone in the group to go up to the hottest chick in the place and talk to her. Whoever got chosen gets to choose another person to go talk up to another chick of his choice. (2nd hottest, etc.) This goes on and until everybody hooks up. Since it's more of a game, it's easier to get over the rejection factor because, well, you've got your other buddies to laugh at you and tell you how bad you bombed out. And you can learn from your buddies bombing out themselves. And since you're already going for the hottest chicks, it's a LOT easier to go down on the looks scale.

Sounded like an awesome idea to me, what do you all think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ya it does work this is mainly the only way i have ever talked to girls. I still remember when i did i was talking to the girl and i was like

"So...how old are u"
"So... wat school do you go too"

etc

Ok bye

And never got the number or nothing

lol

I sucked and still suck today at that cold apporach ****
 

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Well, that's more because your lacking in actual women skills, which I hope you're working on (that's why you're here, right?)

Anyways, this is more so an idea for those too timid to make cold approaches on their own, but have come a long way as far as being a rAFC... I would say this would be a great way to continue to meet hot women after the DJ bootcamp.
 

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i disagree..
might just be my group of friends.
but i feel too much pressure in that kind of situation.
the 3 guys who i can think of who i would go out with in that situation are all just a touch better looking then me and all have no problem getting with girls, hurts the confidence if they all score first up and i miss.

(i don't have probs getting girls, but normally they get nicer ones..)
 
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