"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good way to get yourself out in the field.

Skweints

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I don't know if this has been brought up before, but after talking to one of my good buddies and listening to his stories, he basically taught me an -awesome- way to get out there and meet women. It's a simple method, but gets amazing results, according to him.

Basically, go out with at least one of your good buds (three or four tends to be more fun) to anywhere there is gonna be hot chicks. One person starts off by telling someone in the group to go up to the hottest chick in the place and talk to her. Whoever got chosen gets to choose another person to go talk up to another chick of his choice. (2nd hottest, etc.) This goes on and until everybody hooks up. Since it's more of a game, it's easier to get over the rejection factor because, well, you've got your other buddies to laugh at you and tell you how bad you bombed out. And you can learn from your buddies bombing out themselves. And since you're already going for the hottest chicks, it's a LOT easier to go down on the looks scale.

Sounded like an awesome idea to me, what do you all think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ya it does work this is mainly the only way i have ever talked to girls. I still remember when i did i was talking to the girl and i was like

"So...how old are u"
"So... wat school do you go too"

etc

Ok bye

And never got the number or nothing

lol

I sucked and still suck today at that cold apporach ****
 

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Well, that's more because your lacking in actual women skills, which I hope you're working on (that's why you're here, right?)

Anyways, this is more so an idea for those too timid to make cold approaches on their own, but have come a long way as far as being a rAFC... I would say this would be a great way to continue to meet hot women after the DJ bootcamp.
 

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i disagree..
might just be my group of friends.
but i feel too much pressure in that kind of situation.
the 3 guys who i can think of who i would go out with in that situation are all just a touch better looking then me and all have no problem getting with girls, hurts the confidence if they all score first up and i miss.

(i don't have probs getting girls, but normally they get nicer ones..)
 
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