"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good to be back but I am rusty!

Slayer

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Hey guys I used to read these boards all the time but the past few years I spent focusing on building my career.


I am very very successful with my career but have neglected to work on myself and my game the past few years. Have started going out on the weekends to some bars with friends only to realize just how rusty I am. Seems like all the hype is still to neg a girl which to me does not feel natural if i dont know them.

I was having a conversation with a friend about buying girls drinks. What is considered ok and what is a no go?

The other thing I realized is holy sht i cant hear a word half of them are saying because it can be so loud.


Anyway good to be back

Cheers
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iwanttofight

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Hey Slayer good job on building your career. That is the most important thing in your life because a women will not pay you money but a job will. The women will come I know it will for you. I see that you are from Jersey, Im from Delaware, are you hiring anybody to help you with your sucessful buisness? Help a brother out lol
 

Slayer

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Been reading through the site a bit. Took some time to read through my posts on the old account... laughed about some but others are still the same. I feel like I am at a different stage in life than most people here. I don't really have much free time so I must make the most of the free time I do have.


Having some approach anxiety with my night game with a HB8+. I have no issue with anything below a HB8 but I dont pursue it. I am not going to lower my standards because I know I am good looking, have a great personality, and make stupid money. Reality is I KNOW they should be forming a line to date me.

I have 2 flaws... I am a bit overweight and have no experience. The weight I can lose and the experience... well we all have to start somewhere I am just starting at 25 instead of 18.
 
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