Good Stuff for Beggiining DJ's

[Smooth Player 056]

This is some begginers stuff I wrote and lumped together.

Question:
What Do Women Want?
Answer:
Women Want A Challenge!!!

Question:
WHY Do Women Want A Challenge?
Answer:
Because women live for the thrill of the chase!!!
The second they know they can have you; they WILL NOT want you anymore.
It's all a game.

Question:
What is the game?
Answer:
WHEN YOU WANT THEM, THEY DO NOT WANT YOU.
WHEN YOU DO NOT WANT THEM, THEY WANT YOU!!!
This Is The Game.

Question:
Why Do Women Play Games?
Answer:
Because They Can!! Women Have The Power!!!
Every Guy They Meet Automatically Wants Them.
You Would Play Games Too If You Had The Power! I Sure As Hell Do!

Question:
Why Do Women Have The Power?
Answer:
Because every guy they meet wants them. Beautiful women get hit on 20-30 times in a day! She can have any man she wants, anytime she wants. It's too easy for her. She wants a challenge. She wants a guy with confidence and attitude. She wants a guy who DOES NOT want her and who DOES NOT give her compliments, kiss her ass or shower her with gifts.
Her idea of attraction is different than yours.
She wants a man who does not want her. She wants to come after you and she wants to pursue you! She wants to want you.
She wants a challenge!!
WHY?
Because everyone wants what they can not have & beautiful women can have any guy they want, whenever they want!
They will ONLY want you when you act like you DO NOT want them.
Women want men who are confident, ****y, condescending, charismatic and cool. (THE 5 C'S)
They DO NOT want desperate or insecure guys. They want men that are more powerful than they are and they want men who don't care about getting laid or scoring because they don't have to. They want a man with confidence that they CAN NOT easily control or manipulate. They want a man to put them in their place. THEY want to be controlled, THEY want to be manipulated. THEY want to be seduced!
WOMEN WANT TO BE SEDUCED & CONQUERED!
WHY?
Because Women Love That Challenge!
YYou have to learn how to give it to her.

Question:
How Do I Give Her A Challenge So She Wants Me?
Answer:
1. By Capturing Her Attention through Rejection.
Have you ever noticed that every time you get eye contact with a woman, she is always the one to look away first?
The next time you get eye contact with a beautiful woman or you look into her eyes from a distance and your paths cross, YOU try looking away first! As soon as you get eye contact with her, as soon as you look into her eyes.. YOU look away FIRST. look away first with a look of contempt or remorse toward her. Let her think that you DO NOT think she is good looking or anything special in the slightest. If anything, YOU think she is NOT good looking and nothing special.
As soon as you get eye contact with her
Show her that you are not interested and you will create anticipation and interest toward you! She Will Want You!
You will automatically start to notice her staring at you, wanting you, desiring you because you have given her a challenge. THIS WILL ONLY WOK IF you are able to make sure she interprates you lookinging away as you rejecting her, otherwise you look like a WUSSY! she must get the point of rejection.
OR
(THIS ONE WORKS GREAT) YOU SHOULD INTIMIDATE HER. yuo can keep looking at her with your seductive look, and force her to look away first, making you seem dominant. she should look away and probably look down smiling, wait awhil and make your approach

Question:
How To I Approach Her? How Do I Talk To Her? How Do I Get Her Number?
When you approach women in bars, nightclubs and social settings, don't just walk right in and start speaking. Wait for a moment.
Timing is everything!
Wait until you see a lapse in activity from the ladies or a change in their pattern and as soon as you walk up to them simply say hi ladies and begin picking on them and making fun of them. Joke with women, make them laugh but do it in a ****y and arrogant manner. Be funny and be sarcastic with women!
REMEMBER THE 5 C'S
Be C onfident, Be C ocky, Be C ondescending, Be C harismatic and Be C ool when you speak to beautiful women!
-Approach women with charisma and confidence.
-Tease women, when you begin speaking to them.
-Act like you DO NOT care if you get laid or not.
-Show her that she's nothing special even though she might be.
-Reject her advances when she comes on to you.
AND SHE'S YOURS!
You Will Create A Connection With Every Beautiful Woman You Meet & You Will Create Interest Toward You.
She Will Want and Desire YOU!

Question:
WHY Can I Not Come On To Her & Give Her Compliments? Answer:
Because every guy she meets comes on to her and tells her how beautiful she is and how bad he wants to get with her.
This routine actually turns women off! It makes them sick gentlemen!!
They are sick and tired of being hit on, wanted and desired. They want an empowered man who DOES NOT HAVE TO hit on them and who WILL NOT beg to get laid. They do not want you to stare at them like you are in love and they do not want to hear compliments. They do not want to hear a boy begging them or convincing them for a date. They Want To Have Fun Too. They Want To Be Intrigued. They Want To Be Kept On Their Toes..
They Want A Challenge!
Give Her A Challenge And She Will Want You! Play Hard To Get And She Will Come After You. Show Her That She's Nothing Special AND She's Yours!

Question:
What Should I NOT Do When I First Meet A Beautiful Girl At A Bar, Nightclub or Party?
Answer:
-DO NOT COME ON TO HER
-DO NOT GIVE HER ANY COMPLIMENTS
-DO NOT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL
-DO NOT ACT NERVOUS WHEN YOU ARE SPEAKING TO HER
-DO NOT LER HER KNOW WHERE YOU STAND
-DO NOT LET HER KNOW WHAT YOUR INTENTIONS ARE
-DO NOT LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED

Question:
What Should I Do When I Start Speaking To a Beautiful Woman?
Answer:
-SPEAK LOUDLY, SPEAK CLEARLY AND SPEAK SLOWLY
-LOOK RIGHT INTO HER EYES AS YOU ARE SPEAKING TO HER
-PICK ON HER AND MAKE FUN OF HER THE WHOLE TIME YOU ARE SPEAKING TO HER
-TEASE HER AND MAKE HER LAUGH
-HAVE CONFIDENCE, HAVE ATTITUDE BE ****Y, BE FUNNY, & CONTROL THE CONVERSATION

Question:
How Do I Control The Conversation?
Answer:
By Asking Her Questions And Making Fun Of Her Answers.

Question:
How Do I Know That it's Working?
Answer:
If she's listening, if she's still there. its working!

Question:
How Do I Move Beyond That?
Answer:
At this point you will know how interested in you she is so you now have 3 options.
Option # 1: Get Her Number. Option #2: Kiss Her. Option #3: Take Her Home.

Question:
How Do I Get Her Number?
Answer:
Easy. DO NOT ASK HER FOR IT! Tell her to write it down. Never Ask, Always Tell. Never ask a woman for anything. When you ask a question there are only 2 answers. yes and no. BUT when you TELL her to give you her number you eliminate the question, she WILL give it to you.
If she asks you for yours.. DON'T! Never give her your number because she WILL NOT call you.
Get her number and move on!

Question:
How Do I Know I Can Kiss Her?
Answer:
Again, timing is everything!
Look for a moment or create a moment. Comment on her hair. Lean in and touch her hair and slowly play with her hair. If she doesn't stop you. YOU ARE IN! She's ready to be kissed.

Question:
How Can I take Her Home?
Answer:
Easy! After you kiss her, TELL her to come with you and SHE WILL! She will do as YOU say.

 

[Unregistered]

Jack off in a bottle and sell it to her, you entrepreneur.

 

[ezilonman]

That was a good read, but your thoughts on women are just insane.

You have been brainwashed to believe that all women are money grubbing attention *****s who are evil...pure evil.

You are on the right track but you need to back the train up a few miles.

 

[ketostix]

This post had some good stuff in it, but you present it as gospel and an end-all-be-all solution for every guy. For example if you open a girl at say a club using your example of C+F and teasing most guys are going to get blown out most of the time. I'm not saying your techniques and advice don't have some merit, but C+F isn't the universal attraction creator it's made out to be.

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Originally posted by ketostix
This post had some good stuff in it, but you present it as gospel and an end-all-be-all solution for every guy. For example if you open a girl at say a club using your example of C+F and teasing most guys are going to get blown out most of the time. I'm not saying your techniques and advice don't have some merit, but C+F isn't the universal attraction creator it's made out to be.

The reason why C+F isn't a universal solution is because C+F only works if you genuinely know how to make people laugh. If the humor you're bringing isn't really funny or germane to the conversation occuring (as opposed to being canned lines), women are going to see exactly what you're trying to do and be instantly turned off. Unless she's totally digging the way you look (and if she is, she'll laugh at anything), you better bring a quick wit to the table.

And the author of this thread makes the absurd mistake of thinking C+F is the same as being insulting. It's not. Period, end of story. Stop thinking of it that way. It's like your mother should've told you: people that make fun of other people only do so to cover their own insecurities. Playful teasing is the better phrasing, and that only works once you've built some rapport with the woman you are talking to, otherwise it just comes off as arrogant and forced.

People need to stop looking for a "solution" to the problem of getting women and get out there to start learning by some trial and error. Find a strategy that works for you. If you don't have a quick wit, compensate in some other way. If you're not attractive, compensate in some other way.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Originally posted by Cheat_LBJ
The reason why C+F isn't a universal solution is because C+F only works if you genuinely know how to make people laugh. If the humor you're bringing isn't really funny or germane to the conversation occuring (as opposed to being canned lines), women are going to see exactly what you're trying to do and be instantly turned off. Unless she's totally digging the way you look (and if she is, she'll laugh at anything), you better bring a quick wit to the table.

And the author of this thread makes the absurd mistake of thinking C+F is the same as being insulting. It's not. Period, end of story. Stop thinking of it that way. It's like your mother should've told you: people that make fun of other people only do so to cover their own insecurities. Playful teasing is the better phrasing, and that only works once you've built some rapport with the woman you are talking to, otherwise it just comes off as arrogant and forced.

People need to stop looking for a "solution" to the problem of getting women and get out there to start learning by some trial and error. Find a strategy that works for you. If you don't have a quick wit, compensate in some other way. If you're not attractive, compensate in some other way.

Very true, but he's talking about the greenhorns. They are gonna get shot down more often then not regardless of what is said. C&f is to help create the right attitude of roughly 'I'm not all that interested, but I'm RECLUCTANTLY accepting to be around you to see what you are all about'. Like the attitude most of the women that I go on dates with have, at first anyway.

 

[younex]

to the point post!

very good post.

i like it.

it´s good.

excpet the "look-away-thing".
you need a very very good sense for that.


congratulation