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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Hey guys. Need some song ideas that are good for slow-dancing to.

Something along the lines of "your beautiful"- James Blunt.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

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ACTUALLY I used this as an opener for awhile. "Hey, quick question: what do you think was the best 7th grade slow dance song?" Talk about the awkwardness of 7th grade romance and awful lyrics and desperate young love, etc. It's universally applicable to any girl who was in 7th grade in the past 10-12 years, plus you can get some of the more common ones and make a playlist on your iPod - girls always go crazy for my "7th Grade Slow Dance" playlist.

Incidentally, 70 or so girls have told me that "Back At One" by Brian McKnight was the best slow dance song ever. I personally like "Steppin' Out (Late Night Alumni Slow Dance)" by Kaskade.
 
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Ok, go to www.cdnow.com and then search love songs under cd's. That should give you some good ideas. Any slow love songs are good for slow dancing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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In my country during the whole 7th-8th grade slow dance mania, Metallica's Nothing Else Matters was king, and of course most of the Scorpions slow ballads were pretty good. I like You and I from Scorpions but be ware it's like a song that a couple would dance as their first dance on their wedding. Check out the lyrics here http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/8292/scorp96.html#10
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Hmm Guns and roses November rain was always mine..

Them old celine dions ones were pantie droppers 2
 
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