"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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good site for approach ideas ?

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I remember a while back i had bookmarked a site that someone on here linked,but somehow it got erased , it had tons of creative approach ideas ,on of them was to approach a group of girls and tell them your going to do a magic trick , tell them to close their eyes and grasp the cutest girl by the hand and lead her away from the groups sight ,lol that's just one example does anyone think they know what site im talking about ? I know i should be coming up with these myself , but after knowing about that site i just figured id ask if any one was familiar with it
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ok, I don't think anyone knows of the site im talking about , so lets just our most interesting approaches.

I was in a record store with two of my friends and i saw this girl with her friend and they were both wearing tiaras (was really close to Disney) and the blonde witch i was interested in and these really odd lime green nike shoes , i decided i was gonna talk to here , I told my friends to stay where they were and i would approach the girl and ask here witch on of me and my friends looked the oldest . So I walk up to the girl and it goes something like this

me:hey i like your shoes
hb7: oh , thanks
me: im __
hb7: hi , im __
me: I like your little tiara things
hb7 (looks at her friend) yeah were totally princesses
me: so , where are you two princesses from ?
hb7: ____ but my parents have a summer house here
me: lol cool , (i look back to my friends , and there gone i see them peeking over a shelf a few aisles down , so i tell the girl ill brb n i flag their sorry a$$es over)
me: so yeah which one of us do you think is the oldest? (lame gimmick i kno)
(pointless rambling about our ages she thought i was the oldest and im not)
after that i kinda freeze, super awkward silence
me: sooo, you should give me your number so maybe if your here again we can hang out
hb7:umm ,sure

this happened a while ago so im being as acurrate as i can be
i texted her later that night because i wasn't sure if the number was real or not , low and behold it was , but through that week i was a needy lil afc and texted her to much , and never got to meet up with her .

very embarrassing approach but i learned a lot from it
 
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double post =/
 
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